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Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Hutong Sauna

2/F Kar Wong Building
639 - 645 Shanghai Street
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Argyle Station, Exit A2

Tel: ???? ????
Web: Hutong Sauna

The jury is still out as to whether this is the reincarnated Double Sauna in new premises - (they're apparently accepting an exchange of Double Membership cards for theirs and claiming to strictly limit their VIP members.......hmmmm.......where have we heard that before?) - simultaneously giving the - presumably unintended - impression of being an updated version of the now defunct Towel Club (read the website and you'll see why).

Any reader who's been can send in a initial review by e-mail to the blog.

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That "M" Word

Ya know all that screaming about "equality" in Marriage that politically correct fags and the activists that are goading them are engaging in.........?

And ya know that for the longest time, FuelMix has been saying that Civil Union not marriage is the way to go.....? Because separate but equal is the only way to avoid the trap of the religious Morality Militia?

Heh Heh Heh.......well fags, the highly acclaimed British (gay) actor, Sir Derek Jacobi (probably best known for his title role in the BBC TV drama series, I, Claudius) agrees.  To wit:

"He agreed with interviewer Nigel Farndale’s suggestion that because civil partnerships and marriages afford almost identical legal rights, he might view the debate as a “fuss about nothing”.

He replied: “Exactly, it’s just this word. [marriage] The Church is the problem.”" (emphasis added)

--------Sir Derek Jacobi: Equal marriage debate a "squabble over nothing", Pink News 3 July 2012
 The brief report of the interview is well worth the read.

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Friday, October 26, 2012

The Great Gay Sauna 5

Hollywood Vista
Back 114 - 116 Austin Road
Tsim Sha Tsui
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Jordan Station, Exit D

Tel: 2620 6844
Web: http://www.hongkonggay.info/archives/7336

Note: Open 24 hours 

The Great ( like Alexander, ABC, Action and Gateway) hands out a card valid for 6 visits. The 2nd, 4th and 6th visits attract a 20% discount. The 7th visit is free.  Then they'll hand out another card valid for 6 visits.

They got rid of that spindly step ladder near the hot tub and replaced it with more sensible wooden steps.

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Thursday, October 25, 2012

Gay Sauna Etiquette 17

From a reader:

I have an issue with a guy who is a notorious cruiser on the streets and totally toxic if you run into him in the sauna.  Let's get one thing clear.  He's never been my type and never will be.

I've run into this creep many times all over town even if I'm just going from A to B. He seems to be cruising constantly.  I don't even know if he has a job since everytime I see him on the streets, even during office hours, he's very casually dressed.. I've never come on to him. However every time he lays eyes on me anywhere in town, he just spews abuse and attitude. It doesn't matter whether it's on the street or in the sauna, he's just so abusive to my face.  Other than knowing what he looks like I don't know a thing about him.  I've never spoken to him so I haven't a clue why he's so abusive.

To make it worse, when I've run into him in the saunas he runs to the staff and I know in my gut by the way he keeps whispering to them and turning his head to look at me, that he's saying something about me.

What should I do?

FueMix says:

Out him. Massively.

If what you're saying is accurate, this guy doesn't deserve any mercy.

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Sunday, October 21, 2012

Created Gay

A fascinating and well written website supportive of Gay Christianity. Tons of common sense and refreshingly different to the screeching of the Morality Militia.

One doesn't have to be particularly religious to find something of value in Created Gay. For example:


My father asked me if I am gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No, not really
I said Yes
He said get out of my life
I guess it mattered


My boss asked me if I am gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No, not really
I told him Yes.
He said You're fired, faggot.
I guess it mattered


A friend asked if I am gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No not really
I told him Yes.
He said Don't call me your friend
I guess it mattered


My lover asked Do you love me?
I asked Does it matter?
He said Yes.
I told him I love you
He said Let me hold you in my arms
For the first time in my life something matters.


My God asked me Do you love yourself?
I said Does it Matter?
He said Yes.
I said How can I love myself? I am gay
He said That is the way I made you
Nothing again will ever matter


Anonymous

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Cross Cultural 4

A Chinese bi-curious reader wrote to FuelMix about another matter. It turned out that he was into silver Top GWMs so FuelMix figured he'd ask him some questions on his attraction to older GWMs as part of the Cross Cultural posts he's drafting.

Here are the reader's answers:

1.   What is your motivation that is driving you towards silver daddies?
To see if the reality of a being topped by a silver daddy comes anywhere near the fantasy.  Never been fucked by a guy before so am bi-curious

2.   What do u find attractive about silver daddies?
Maybe it's to feel taken control of, dominated in a way but also to be told what to do and to pleasure that daddy as a bottom and orally.

3.   How did u get turned onto them in the first place rather than guys your age or younger?
N/A, never had sex with a man (yet)

4.   How do they react to you?
N/A never dated a man but would be NSA/FBs, does that count as  relationship if it were regular or as often as the guy visits HK for a period of time?

5.   Do you date them?
See answer to (4) above

6.   Do you ever feel exploited by them?
I guess being told what to do during sex might be a form of exploitation but it would be part of the fantasy but if it were taken too far, like being videoed I would have to say no and stop it there.

7.   Do you see a long term future with a silver daddy Top?
Only in a NSA/FB relationship

8.   Does your family know?
No

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Saturday, October 20, 2012

Follow Me Sauna 5

Shop B, G/F, No. 9 Old Bailey Street
Central
Hong Kong

Tel: 2810 0144
Web: http://203.86.167.152/ads/FollowMe/

Received from a reader:   

Hi FuelMIx

Went there twice during September, both times mid-week late afternoon.  Both times including me, there were 4 guys there - all GAMs. Without saying that I am superior the 3 other GAMs were very average looking.  There was no action and all sat there smoking.  I stayed maybe one and a half hours each time and then left.  Nobody else came in.

Anyway the Japanese bukkake gay porn was hot.

The staff guy gave me a free entry card for next time.  He says best times to come are Fridays from 9pm onwards (they go overnite) and Saturdays from 6pm onwards (they also go overnite).  He also said that white gay men come on those times.

I don't know if he is speaking truth since the place was so empty when I was there.  The place is very small however.

FuelMix says:

Anyone else noticed the irony of a nearly empty gay sauna playing gay bukkake porn?

Thanks for the update.

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Friday, October 19, 2012

The Real Dick

From a reader:

I have to agree with your observations [see label, Gay Escorts] about Mainland Chinese man-whores flooding this city [Very Rich Megacity]. It appears to be a colossal scam.  Even casual glances reveal  many profiles that seem fake - some are stealing still shots from western gay porn videos and pretending it's them in action ! It's like WTF.....??!!

The phone numbers are a joke......either it's a dead line or it gets routed to some unknown number deep in the Mainland and it's totally obvious - that despite what it says in the ad - the manwhore is not in town.

As for their prices, forget it.....they change moment to moment. I'm GAM and speak Chinese. One whore quoted me HK$800.  A few seconds later my GAM friend who also speaks Chinese rings up the same whore and gets quoted HK$400.  And the joke is.......we both quoted exactly the same stats to the manwhore when describing ourselves !! 

Also have to agree with what you said about local escorts not really being able to compete with such a tidal wave of Mainlanders.  It's all kinda sad really.

Cheers

FuelMix says: 

Yep.  Somebody needs to tell those Mainland man-whores that their antics are the slant-eyed equivalent of a Nigerian Scam.

Thinking about it, if the local sluts stopped snorting poppers and popping Ketamine, they actually have a Unique Selling Proposition (the phrase they teach in Marketing 101)...........and that is the authenticity of their photos and profiles.  Of course they'd have to admit they were drug fucked too...........

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Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Cross Cultural 3

A reader left a brief comment on the initial post, Cross Cultural, saying that money drives a much younger gay man of one ethnicity into the arms of a much older gay man of another ethnicity. He also referred to the gay bars in South East Asia specifcially catering to foreign men.  FuelMix has some comments on that.

Assume that the younger gay man is Asian and the older gay man is Western.  Assume also 2 main scenarios:

  • Younger Asian male from a rural background;
  • Younger Asian male from an urban background;

Younger Asian Male From A Rural Background

Origins

1.   In  countries like Thailand, Laos, Kampuchea, Vietnam, the Philippines, Indonesia and China, despite their fast-emerging economic status, there is massive rural poverty. Younger men and women will do anything to get a better life.  That better life starts with the bright lights of a larger city, like the nation's capital or a beach or tourist resort where white foreigners with fat wallets (and fatter waistlines) are guaranteed to show up.


Motivations

2.   For the young guy, getting out of the village may have been forced on him, or he fled, or he decided he had enough ambition to make it on his own, or his friends from the village had already moved to town and were calling him to join them.  Throw in some naiveity and gullibility; and let's not rule out covert or overt human trafficking where young people of both sexes are lured into the city with cash as bait.

"Will the Young Asian Village Guy be aware of what he might have to do in order to get the cash?........." 

3.   Is the Young Asian Village Guy aware of his sexuality?  He might - in which case, living as a gay guy in the village is a doomed proposition at worst, or uncomfortable at best. All signs point to the exits.  If he's not definitively aware of his sexuality, he'll certainly be aware of the lure of cash.

4.   Will the Young Asian Village Guy be aware of what he might have to do in order to get the cash?  That depends on his looks, his view of his sexuality, his naiveity, peer pressure, his family obligations back in the village, his willingness to take an opportunistic risk and perhaps a dash of calculating cynicism.


Execution

5.   What he might lack in formal education, is replaced by a PhD in Street Smarts as soon as he hits the Strip with the Go-Go boys in the flourescent yellow G-strings who start work at 10pm.  He's gonna find out how to survive either through incremental wisdom, unofficial mentoring from the other Go-Go boys, exploitative trauma - or a combination of all three.

6.   Sooner or later, Young Asian Village Guy will discover the fundamental truth in advertising that sex sells ....... and....... his looks will sell - or at least can be rented. The proliferation of go-go bars, clubs, gay massage parlours, discreet all gay resort boutique hotels, a burgeoning gay travel industry focused on the Asia Pacific region,  cruisy gay or gay-friendly gyms, gay cafes and  gay friendly shops may be his introduction to a body focused culture - regardless of how he defines his sexuality.

"What he might lack in formal education, is replaced by a PhD in Street Smarts as soon as he hits the Strip with the Go-Go boys in the flourescent yellow G-strings who start work at 10pm."

7.   Considering that the age of consent might be somewhat lower than in the West, Young Asian Village Guy will learn quickly  that multiple streams of income in a body focused culture - coupled with an exotic ethnicity and tropical heat -  are most easily obtained from a parade of older male (fat) white foreigners with age spots and pudgy fingers.  Thanks to them, The Strip goes 24/7 and thanks to them, he might have a job in a G-String till he turns 30 (either his looks will go by then or pressure from the family to marry and have a kid might be unbearable and he'll succumb).  That's a lot of cash than can be sent back to the village between now and then.

8.   More importantly, he'll learn about competition - there's no shortage of exotic looking twinks from the boonies, bailing into The Strip by the Toyota truckload.  Over time, Young Asian Village Guy will define his looks -  masculine buffed gym jock or skinny effeminate doe-eyed twink or EMO boy...? Not only his body, but his dress sense, mannerisms and language will change to reflect his new persona........and so they should......he's independent and earning an income in the "entertainment" or "hospitality" or "tourism" (they're all euphemisms) industry.

"Thanks to the Web, the whites have done their homework.  They know exactly which joints on The Strip to patronize or avoid."

9.   But the competition cuts 2 ways.  Not only is he competing with the newest arrival on The Strip, but he's also competing for the attention of the fat older white males. Thanks to the Web, the whites have done their homework.  They know exactly which joints on The Strip to patronize or avoid.  They are fully capable of telling the difference between Raunch and a Rip-off and they have a grapevine to boot.  They'll tip well - even handsomely - but they'll demand The Full Monty and Full Service.

10............And more than one fat older white guy will have his eye on him...... an initial sexual attraction will morph into fascination and obsession - for at least as long as the fat  older white guy remains checked in at the budget, or more upscale boutique resort, hotel.

11.  Over time, Young Asian Village Guy will develop a photographic memory of his white customers. He'll know who the Big Spenders are, what time of year they show up, how long they stay, what they like to talk about, how buffed he needs to be, how tight his T-shirt and jeans need to be, where they fondle him, what they drink, how much they'll drink and how much they'll spend - on him.

12.  He'll learn the art of Rehearsed Vulnerability - judiciously casting personal details about how tough life is in the village.  Creating empathy is important to keep those drinks flowing, those tips coming and a loyal customer base of fat older white guys.

13.  As he builds up his confidence, he'll take to Upselling to the fat older white guy.  That will take 3 forms:
  • Hustling -  Heck, it may even be expected of him by his employers sooner rather than later. He might have a stable of smitten regular fat older white guys.  He might even date them in succession, giving each the impression that they are "The One".  Along the way, he'll pick up cash, gifts, compliments, a trip to another city...........
  • Drug Dealing - it's a lucrative side income and par for the course on The Strip.
  • Pimping - he'll offer to introduce fat white guy to some of his buddies who know exactly what to do and say to please him.  To the fat white guy in the tropics, an offer of a sun-kissed harem of Go-Go boys for the duration of his stay - and potentially on his repeat visits -  is too tempting to resist. Of course, Young Asian Village Guy will get a cut from all those pelvic thrusts. It's just not publicly discussed.
How long can this "arrangement" go on? At this point, let's just say it's one of convenience or expediency, or simply supply meeting demand.


Coming up in Part 4:  The Young Asian Urban Guy
Coming up in Part 5:  Profiles of the Ageing White Guy: Paternal, Predator or Pathetic?

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Cross Cultural 2

Spotted today on Craigslist M2M page today for Very Rich Megacity:

AMERICAN "DAD" DOING BIZ IN HK......LOOKING FOR YOUNGER "SON" - 54 (PENINSULA HOTEL)

PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU RESPOND..
GOODLOOKING, MATURE, PROFESSIONAL WHITE MAN DOING LONG-TERM BUSINESS IN HONG KONG
IS LOOKING TO MEET A YOUNGER MAN WHO ENJOYS "DADDY/SON" RELATIONS..
"DAD' IS AN ORAL BOTTOM AND ENJOYS USING MY TONGUE AND MOUTH ALL OVER A YOUNGER SON'S BODY.
HEAD TO TOES.. FRONT AND BACK...
YOU MUST ENJOY KISSING.. HAVING YOUR COCK SUCKED, YOUR ASS EATEN..
"DADDY" SEEKS AN ASIAN YOUNG MAN.. UNCUT, UNDER 5'8",
YOU WILL BE TAKEN FOR DINNERS, THEATER, TRAVEL , SPA TREATMENTS AND...?
SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY, PLEASE.. YOU MUST INCLUDE A CLEAR FACIAL PICTURE..


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Tuesday, October 16, 2012

A Preference

Spotted on Craigslist M2M page:

Dirty sex - m4m - 35 (Tokyo)

hey guys,
i'm tired of all the "no D&D guys" and am wondering if there are any guys out there with syphilis or gonorrhea or chlamydia who wan to give it to me. (No HIV).


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Sunday, October 14, 2012

Memo to Fags 18

To: Fags
From: FuelMix

Re:  Fuck N' Go ads

So many online, app and chatroom ads saying, "Fuck N'  Go"  as the main hook or subject line.  Thing is, online, app and chatroom ads have a high failure and frustration rate.

So, if nobody cums, how can they go?

Amen, brother.

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Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Ni Chome Sauna 10

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              2723 - 1881      end_of_the_skype_highlighting
Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna  

Received from a reader:

Hey FuelMix

Been a while since I'd dropped into Ni Chome.  Showed up Monday 8 October 2012 about 4:30pm.  Several guys were already there because the place opens at 11am.  Mostly GAMs in their 20s and 30s, slim types with a couple of chunky ones. Nothing spectacular until a hot light brown guy walked in (maybe Indian or Pakistani dunno for sure), really great gym muscled body and cute face.  He had about 5 GAM guys after him at once.  They mobbed him in the corridor.  3 of the GAMs bundled him into a room, kept the lights on and the door open and started to service him so everybody else could watch.  That guy really was hot eye candy and made the visit worthwhile. Pity he left about 6pm.

There was a steady stream of other GAMs coming in after work in their 20s and 30s. They were average looking,  Got action with a couple of them, so no complaints there, especially the slutty 20 something GAM who said he liked to squeal like a woman !! LOL

Will probably go back again.  At HK$80.00 on weekdays it's still reasonably priced.

Take care


FuelMix says:  Thanks for the update.

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Tuesday, October 09, 2012

Jesus The Fag

......from no less a mouth than Sir Elton John as reported in the Sun on 19 February 2010.

Ever the enquiring mind, FuelMix decided to do a quick tour of christianity to see if the thesis held up:

  • When JC was born, it was just heavenly......lots of singing, strobe lights, androgenous guys in white with wings, all high.  Pretty much a faa-buu-luss White Party.
  • When JC was born, 3 foreign guys show up (no invitation) with designer gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh i.e. Bling, Perfume and Body Rub.
  • JC is presented in the Bible as an only child. Mama's boy huh? Does woodwork occaisonally, lords it over the other kids in the neighbourhood.
  • As a pre-adolescent, JC hangs out at church, attracting the attention of infatuated priests. Obviously into older men and they know it.
  • When he's older, JC cruises for guys on the shores of Lake Galilee with the opening line, "Follow me, I will make you fishers of men". Uh huh.........
  • JC hangs out with Mary Magdalene, a reputed whore.
  • JC displays foot fetish when MM washes his feet with her hair.
  • JC likes getting worshiped and craves adulation from easily swayed types.
  • JC lectures about other people's morals, says nothing about his own.
  • JC brags about how rich his Dad is: "In my Father's house, there are many mansions"
  • JC goes to parties, helps out with the drinks by turning water into wine.
  • JC composes a song, then tells everybody else to sing it.  Calls it "The Lord's Prayer".
  • JC holds a Pre-Death Party.  Calls it "The Last Supper", then pisses everybody off by throwing a hissy fit claiming that nobody really knows him and how he's gonna be backstabbed in a few hours by 2 of them.
  • JC goes for a walk in Gethsemane Park alone, late at night.  Knows Judas will show up and kiss him.
  • JC is into BDSM - accepts torture, crown of thorns, flogging, spitting, nailing. Apparently, no "safe" words used.
  • Wears cool purple shawl on the big day.  Raffled off to Roman soldiers. Does his bit for charity.
  • Demands a drink while dying.

Yep......sounds pretty gay to FuelMix.

Originally published 19 February 2010.  
Republished 9 October 2012.

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Sunday, October 07, 2012

Poz Guys Hookups

Starting 1 October 2012,  a new Grindr-like hookup site, targeting poz gay guys, has come online.  It's called http://volttage.com/splash/

While it is aimed primarily at poz guys, the site does not ask its members to specifically state their HIV status,

"We take the stance that everyone should assume their partner is HIV positive and proceed accordingly. Asking someone their status is rather pointless, as people may not know or even lie about it to avoid rejection. We encourage members to be out and proud but we understand that the stigma can be prohibitive so members control all of their own content. I hope that the sense of community will help members ‘come out’ about their status over time.”

-------Project Runway's Jack Mackenroth Launches Grindr-like Hookup Site For HIV+ Gay Men, SFGN, 20 September 2012