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Thursday, September 29, 2011

It's My Butt Again

“It used to be that there would be one nude guy wandering around the neighborhood and no one thought twice about it………..Now it’s a regular thing and much more obnoxious. We have guys sitting down naked in public without the common decency to put something down underneath them.”

--------Scott Weiner, City Supervisor, Castro District, San Francisco quoted in New York Times, 25 September 2011, Protesters Bare All Over Proposed San Francisco Law

FuelMix had previously written about this in his post, It’s My Butt, Kid.  In case it wasn’t obvious, the City By The Bay does NOT have a law against being naked in public.  Public nudity is NOT an arrestable offence by a police officer unless accompanied by a lewd act.  A Citizen’s Arrest is still permissible, but it would take guts in a city fucked up on its Political Correctness.

The above quote is the City’s attempt to make it compulsory for nudists to put something between their butt and public seats.  Whilst the nudists have become a tourist attraction in what used to be the gay ghetto of Castro –but now a much more family oriented neighbourhood – their bare assed antics (and one can bet a number of fags are in on it) have become a nuisance.  Shop owners swear it’s not a problem coz it brings in gawkers and might be good for business.

Some of these nudists are elderly folks.  FuelMix wonders whether the sexual marginalization of ageing fags may have had something to do with it.  In other words, if you’re not gonna eat my ass anymore, I’m just gonna walk around bare assed anyway.

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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Gentleman's Agreement

Mezzanine Floor,
11E Aberdeen Street
Central
Hong Kong

Tel: 2850 4666

This little shop (situated in an alley directly opposite a men’s public toilet…….) specializes in men’s underwear and swimwear.  It’s very gay and kinda funky.  The styles are mainly European with some cheaper local stuff.

Staff are helpful without being pushy.  They’re knowledgeable about the products.  They will be expanding their line with shirts and tops.

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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

No One Over......

........wanna see what one of the biggest names in gay-for-pay porn from the 90s now looks like......?

(The conviction for attempted murder is a bonus).

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Monday, September 26, 2011

Alexander Sauna 13

1st Floor, Wing Cheong Building
404 Reclamation Street
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit E 1 

Open 24 hours
Tel: 2148 0400

From a reader:

Dear FuelMix

Dropped into Alexander today and noticed they now have free ice cream from the cooler as well as the usual free bananas crackers cakes and on weekdays noodles.

FuelMix says:

Heh........there's a lot than can be done with free ice cream and bananas in a gay sauna...............life is good.

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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Gay Saunas in Hong Kong 1

From a reader:  

Hi


Been  going through your sauna reviews in HK and trying out different gay saunas myself. You are very accurate about the places and people.

My comment is this – there are so many saunas now in HK but many times I noticed that getting action was impossible even on those Nude Nites.  There was so much standing around and a lot of attitude.  People stared a lot and sometimes they might touch as they walked past.  But getting real action was difficult.  The majority of the guys in the sauna are not good looking, even the muscleboys as you pointed out.

Why do they have so much attitude and what are they looking for?

I can only think of one sauna in HK – which you reviewed – where I could get action consistently.  But even then there was a lot of standing around and attitude.  Some days the action there was not that great.

I’m left with the impression that the gay saunas in HK are not much fun.  What do you think?

FuelMix says:

You’re right.  And you’ve hit on an important point by asking, “what are they looking for?”  The blunt answer is they don’t have a clue.

Traditional gay literature will say that the gay sauna is the great social leveller.  Professionals fuck garbagemen,  a flight attendant will fuck a judge, a college jock will fuck an architect. NSA, no questions asked.

For a while FuelMix had noticed that the ratio and frequency of sexual action in the gay saunas in Very Rich Megacity seemed to be falling – even on the Nude Aternoons/Nites where there were upwards of 30 people there. Even a hottie like himself was left spinning his balls and wondering, “WTF….?

Best as he can tell, the dynamic of the gay saunas in VRM is fundamentally shifting AWAY from getting full-on action and into a place of refuge.  In other words, they’re turning into a Nude Drop-In Centre where fags flee their families, the office crowd or their str8 friends for a few hours. They’re not looking for conversation, they’re either smoking,  zoned out in front of the porn or TV screen, glued to the computer or mobile phone, propped up against the walls or repeatedly doing circuits in the Dark Area swaying to the beat of the Club Tracks.

If sex happens it’s not by design it’s by default, or the withering resignation that they’ve got to do something before they have to leave. Hence the huge amount of voyeurism towards those few who do get action.

The paradox is that as packed as the place may be, it can be tremendously lonely.  The overwhelming feeling is that of a pervasive, automatic, trance-like state where the guys are barely functioning and sex appeal has gone to the vet for neutering.

FuelMix is happy to be proved wrong but for the moment, maintains that something very odd is indeed happening in the gay saunas in town.

Thanks for the observation.

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Thursday, September 22, 2011

Memo To Fags 14

To: Fags
From: FuelMix

Hey Banana Fags.........just because you might have been born or brought up in the West, does NOT automatically make you "chill and masculine" in your online ads.  You're still a chink trying real hard to be white.  Take a long hard look at each other when you're at the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation) desperately attempting to differentiate yourselves from the local yellow.

What are you implying?  That chinks born in Asia aren't masculine.....?  Get over yourselves. 

FuelMix has long maintained that in addition to the well documented Gay Racism, there is the other phenomenon of Oblique Intra - Racial Racism - which predictably, nobody in Fagland will ever admit to.


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Monday, September 19, 2011

Gay Sex In Modern India

Brilliantly written opinion from Daily News & Analysis on 18 September 2011 entitled, Looking for gay male sex at the supermarket.

With gems like this:

Muscular men are always asking only for other muscular men in a replication of the clone culture in the white gay world which makes one shudder. It appears we are always ready to copy the worst aspects of other cultures. The need for NSA is not because they are individualist but because they see relationships as outside the gay world which is in any case usually hidden from their regular lives".

Well worth reading - particularly as FuelMix pointed out earlier, tons of (chauvinistic and mysogynistic) highly closeted uncut brown fags from Masala Republic are hitting the shores - and gay saunas - here in Very Rich Megacity.

To observe that these brownies need to learn some gay etiquette and simple human courtesy, would be an understatement.  But at least readers will know where the behaviour is coming from.

And don't get FuelMix started on how these "just suck me, don't kiss me" types are emulating the macho swagger they saw on dubbed Arnie Schwarzenegger flicks or the strut of the latest, hottest Bollywood hunk (hairy chest optional).

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Sunday, September 18, 2011

The New Male Menopause ?

FuelMix is coming across an increasing number of men, usually in their mid to late 50s, married (with varying degrees of sexual satisfaction), kids moved out or away at college, claiming to be, or having been,"solidly straight".

Nothing unusual about that - except that in their words, they all want to "try gay". Apparently ubiquitous online porn fired a curiosity that just won't go away. Years of eating and fucking fish, breeding on demand, putting up with mothers-in-law, mortages, measles, mutual funds and Thanksgiving, have left these men asking, "is that all there is?"

"Trying gay" seems to be the male baby boomer fad du jour. It's on par with finally leasing that Ferrari. FuelMix wonders whether this has something to do with the large numbers of 50-something men hitting the gym in droves, "trying" to look good.

But there may be another explanation. These baby boomers were also the original hippies of the 60s where sexual exploration was a rite of passage. Could it be that things are coming full circle? Once a hippie, always a hippie? In other words, the underlying streak of non-conformism was always there - just squelched by the temporary demands of heterosexual normality?

If so, then is it really correct to label fags as "a sub-culture"? If the theory that being born fag is genetic, proves correct (see The Blood Of My Children 3, 27 June 2006), then the real sub-culture appears to be that which is now surfacing in male baby boomers with enquiring tastes. Call it the new "grey jock itch".

Originally published 24 August 2006 
Republished 18 September 2011

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Too Lazy To Suck

FuelMix came across the following online ad  and sets it out in full:

"29, married, professionally employed, clean cut, 100% discreet, D&D free and a fetish for LARGE amounts of THICK creamy cum. Not really looking to give oral as much as I am having my mouth filled with cum. If you can get yourself off, I will taste it all. Prefer married guys with limited experience. Age, race, and body type arent important, but the CUM does. Serious replies only."

FuelMix can't help but find this ad crushingly funny. What would an encounter with this fag look like? Him sitting there with his mouth open, like a stunned fish? And when not getting thick creamy cum, what does fag say to his wife? "Not really looking to give oral....."? or "If you can get yourself off...." ?

Originally published 17 August 2006 
Amended and Republished 18 September 2011

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Friday, September 16, 2011

Nigga Fag's Rage

FuelMix dropped in to the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation) to catch up with the usual underwhelming undergraduates.   He was introduced to a nigga fag, visiting from God’s Own Country. FuelMix and the nigga fag bantered and laughed for a while.

Then nigga fag turned serious. He asked whether FuelMix was aware of a named sauna in white Fagland. FuelMix rolled his eyes and asked why. Nigga fag lowered his voice. He had gone there looking for action only to be totally shunned by the clientele.

Nigga fag said it was a fundamental unspoken contempt for his colour, a hatred that was invisible, implicit yet very palpable. They would not acknowledge him, greet him, or speak to him. As the only black dude there, they would leave the steam room when he entered or vacate the jacuzzi when he stepped in. When he’d walk down the corridors cruising the rooms with open doors, they would simply switch off the lights as he came by and switch them on again when he’d gone past. They would not do that when a white fag walked by.

FuelMix listened quietly. Nigga fag’s voice was softer but he was shaking with rage. He sighed and looked away. There was silence.

Then he said, “I am a nigga, man. I’m born nigga. I’m as black as black gets. Ain’t nothing gonna change that. I’m just another dude. They can’t see past my colour, so they treat me like shit. I didn’t come to this city to be treated like that. I’m never coming back here”.  Hie eyes teared up.  He lowered his head.  There was a long silence.

FuelMix, fiercely proud of his foreign heritage, quietly replayed the number of times he too had been on the receiving end of white Fagland’s finest manners.

Originally published 2 August 2006 
Amended and Republished 16 September 2011

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Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Ni-chome Sauna 5

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              2723 - 1881      end_of_the_skype_highlighting

Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna

From a reader (slightly edited for clarity):

Dear FuelMix

I went to Ni chome on Saturday afternoon about 5:30pm.  The place was very full with lots of  GAMs.  Some of the GAMs were muscular and gym types.  

There [were]  also some white guys in their 30s and  3 very hot gym built Pakistani ? or Indian ? guys (I'm not sure which) in their 20s or early 30s.  It was [the]  first time I'd seen them there so I hope they come back.  Some people say those guys are from California Fitness in Tsim Sha Tsui which gets many muscular brown guys.  I hope more of them come to gay saunas in town.

There were so many people there that I had trouble finding a locker.  The staff do not give a locker number.  They give  a padlock and  key and tell you to take any locker that's free.

All private cabins were full and so lots of people standing around in the corridors.  It was  difficult to move around.  There is some attitude there from the GAMs but I got action with GAMs and GWMs.  I touched one of the muscular brown guy's body a few times.  He was very nice and polite but he wanted other muscular guys to play with. 

I think many people go to Ni Chome because the price of 90.00 on the weekend is quite reasonable compare[d] to other saunas in town. 

FuelMix says: 

Yeah, it would be good to see some more ethnic diversity in the gay saunas around here.  Thanks for the update.

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When The Chips Are Down 2

This blog’s growing army of fascinated readers will recall FuelMix’s comments about fags and their utter lack of commitment when the time comes to actually show up for a real time encounter. See When The Chips Are Down.

Apparently, FuelMix is not alone in his contempt. Below are 3 actual comments made on an online message board, and reproduced with permission: 

“You chat with someone on the phone a little (or a lot), set up a time to meet up, call them the day of and they seem to have fallen off the face of the planet. What a shitty fucking thing to do to someone, shows a complete lack of respect. Some people need to get their heads checked.”

“I mean, I've cancelled a time or two but I always contact the person and let them know, don't leave them sitting around holding out and wasting time.”

“Back out with no notice then just ignore the person for life and spend the next while hoping you never run into them, [because] that would be extremely awkward. Yep, sounds like a good way to conduct one's private life. Mature too.” 

It’s unlikely that FuelMix is the only one suspecting that the urban fag’s manners have plummeted. The decay in simple human courtesy is the first sign that something is going very, very wrong in society generally - and in Faggotry in particular.

Think FuelMix is overreacting..? Think again. Social contempt, lies, betrayal, deceit are viewed by many people as “just a game”. But guess what..? Games are a reflection of human behaviour. Take a look at how people react in sporting events and the popularity of "reality" shows.

Then stretch the thinking some more: social contempt, lies, betrayal and deceit are also found in domestic and international politics. And after all, politics is a game, right....?

Look around at the world. Never before has the international situation been so overwhelmingly dangerous and highly charged. And what’s driving it...? Strip away the rhetoric and you come down to social contempt, lies, betrayal and deceit, being played out in a very high stakes game where your own survival may be at stake.

In case it isn’t obvious, everything is interconnected – in ways that the average fag is too stupid to comprehend. By continuing their own brand of social contempt, lies, betrayal and deceit, the urban fag is actually contributing to political instability and the mentality that goes with it.

Fags have no business clamouring for acceptance, when they so readily dish out rejection. It's a sad truism that the more you despise others, the more you actually hate yourself.

Blows your mind doesn’t it?

Orignally published 30 June 2006
Amended and Republished 13 September 2011

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Monday, September 12, 2011

The Ruffled Fag

A fag, bristling with indignation, e-mailed FuelMix. Fag had just read FuelMix's profile on a website and had taken umbrage at the inclusion of the words, "D/D free, UB2".

Fag alleged those words were crass, grossly insensitive and amounted to the worst thing one man could say to another. Fag finished it off by insisting he would never hookup with such a person.

Well....OK. At the time, FuelMix's profile had been sitting on that site for a year and a half. Other than said fag, nobody took exception to those words. If anything, the profile attracted plaudits. Secondly, fag's approach to FuelMix was unsolicited. Since no hookup was ever discussed, the purported rejection was moot.

But there is a deeper point: was the fag suggesting the words  "D/D free, UB2" were arbitrary, exclusionary, discriminatory or unnecessary? Fag never did say. And that's the point. Why would those words be hitting him so close to the bone? His profile on the same site said nothing about his health or his drug use.

Considering that both profiles appeared on a site that was all about getting naked, on what basis was the fag alleging that setting criteria for drugs and health was in bad taste?

In the meat markets, as in the mall, it's all about caveat emptor (let the buyer beware). Retail has its Better Business Bureau. What protection does a fag have in the online and real worlds? Is an advertising fag supposed to assume that a condom is the answer to all his queries and is the only protection he needs?

A clear statement of "D/D free UB2", is neither discriminatory, redundant or exclusionary. Neither is it a "preference" (another favourite fag online term). It's a non-negotiable pre-requisite.

If a fag cringes at asking - or being asked - drug and health status, then political correctness has gone to ludicrous and potentially fatal extremes. FuelMix declares that fags upset by "D/D free, UB2" are trying to play anonymity and implicit potential deceit, against legal liability.

A fag has no constitutional right of silence, and neither can a fag invoke the privilege against self-incrimination when asked a direct queston about his drug use and health - regardless of whether "D/D free, UB2" appears in the allegedly offending profile.  

Eat that you fuckin' fag.  

Originally published 28 October 2006
Amended and Republished 12 September 2011

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The Kindness Of Strangers

FuelMix was wandering in the gay trails, not looking for sex, just wandering and thinking. As he stepped out of the trails and onto the road, he saw a fag with whom he was acquainted. Fag was standing next to his car, the hood was up. It was late afternoon and the light was fading. The cars were leaving.

Fag was getting agitated. His car wouldn’t start and he didn’t have a cell fone. FuelMix wasn’t carrying his. Several passing fags mumbled they didn’t have one. Eventually, as it was growing even darker, FuelMix decided to stay with the fag, at least until automotive help arrived or the park wardens in their truck.

2 fags appeared out of the darkness and had a cell fone. Fag called for help, but couldn’t quite explain his location. Fortunately, one of the 2 fags knew how to deal with call centres, took the fone and uttered a series of codes to confirm who he was. The call centre got a fix on the location and help would be there within the hour.

Fag with the broken car was grateful. FuelMix was impressed – even more so when the 2 fags also offered to stay as darkness fell. We all stood around chatting for a while. Then, headlights appeared. It was the park wardens closing up the trails. They screeched to a halt and the broken car was pointed out to them. They said they’d keep a look out for the tow truck and escort it to the right position, checking back every now and then.

Fag was happy. FuelMix was happy. The 2 fags were happy. The location and security of the fag and his broken car were now known to park wardens and the tow truck. Fag got into his car to wait and insisted FuelMix and the 2 fags had done more than enough to help him and his car get home.

Walking in the darkness, the 2 fags offered FuelMix a ride home. FuelMix accepted. Sometimes even in the darkness, class shines through.




Originally published 12 June 2006
Amended and Republished 12 September 2011
 
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No Endless E-mail Tags

When FuelMix sees those words in an ad, he glazes over. It’s a sure sign that the fag is halfway to being a flake.

Why?

The fag is either suppressing information or putting on the pressure for a hookup, or is about to bail. FuelMix takes that phrase as a clear sign of the emotionally crippled, insecure fag hiding behind his assumed importance.

The fag will squeal and say, “yeah but I don’t wanna be strung along by another fag who may be jacking off to my e-mails while secretly pretending he wants a hook up”. Fair enough. But you can’t answer his queries without being overly sexual in your response? Can’t you word your ad more clearly to say exactly the type of guy you’re looking for, what you’re into, your neighbourhood, where you wish to play and when? You’re the one putting out the ad. That gives you some control doesn’t it?

From experience and anecdotal evidence from fags (who honestly admitted the very low success rates in online hookups – contrary to what the online sites brag about), FuelMix estimates its takes between 8 – 10 e-mails to be sure that action is gonna take place. And that’s only locally.

For hookups with fags in other cities, the number jumps to between 14 – 18 e-mails back and forth.

In other words, it actually takes effort and commitment. FuelMix’s growing clique of fascinated readers will recall FuelMix saying that many urban fags are a product of their own habits, one of which is an utter lack of commitment. (see When The Chips Are Down). Small wonder that a facile statement  such as “no endless e-mail tags” is a predictable by-product of ingrained flakiness.


........And these are the same fags who moan in their ads that they don't want someone "sketchy"......

For the record, when fag and FuelMix invested the effort and commitment to get the hookup, the sex was fuckin’ awesome. That's  more than can be said for the generic urban fag reading these words, who knows damn well he missed several chances for a fuck coz he couldn’t bring himself to answer the e-mails for too long.

Presumably, his language, concentration and typing skills ran out..........  

Originally published 13 June 2006
Amended and Republished 12 September 2011

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Thursday, September 08, 2011

When The Chips Are Down

FuelMix was doing a periodic field test with a random fag, online. Fag was apparently located closeby and had posted his stats and pics. He claimed to be looking for an encounter, not involving sex. FuelMix opened a chat window, offering his stats and pics. Fag was blown away by what he saw and gushed that he wanted to meet up in an hour.

FuelMix said fine - he was heading in that direction anyway. A public location was agreed. Just before closing the chat window, FuelMix re-confirmed the time and place. Fag then said, “Well I might be there”.

FuelMix asked what that meant. Fag responded that he might get a call from his friends between now and meeting up. They might be annoyed that he wasn’t there. FuelMix asked for a simple “yes” or “no” as to whether fag was going to show up.

Fag replied, “I will have to say No, coz my friends might call”

Stupid urban fags might say that the fag gave a definitive answer. FuelMix disagrees. The fag was seeing what he could get away with, first making an agreement and then not showing up at all without an explanation. The demand for a simple “yes” or “no” forced his hand and exposed his amateurism. Needless to say, fag flunked the field test and was flushed down the toilet of history.

But the story has wider implications: if the urban fag simply cannot commit to the small things, can he be trusted to commit on the big things like properly disclosing his health status, job, money, monogamy and trust?

FuelMix suspects not. It’s the little things that add up. When the chips are down, many fags are simply products of their own recurring habits one of which, is an utter lack of commitment.

Originally published 3 June 2006
Republished 8 September 2011 

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Tuesday, September 06, 2011

Rainbow High

The “lifestyle” has inherent hedonism. From bronzers to glow sticks, cockrings to circuit parties, pumping at the gym to cruising downtown. It’s a high stakes game with a twist of hypocrisy. Even those claiming to be “non-scene” are looking to “be seen” – penis enlargement exercises that show thru the Diesel jeans, repeated references to “model looks” or “straight looking, straight acting” or looking to meet on webcam.

As fags are fond of saying, “So many men, so little time”. The pursuit of urban male hedonism and cheap technology as a means of finding men, quickly become compulsive. Fags are early adaptors of both. Now think about this: it is a universal principle that for every action, there is a reaction. If fags are in a heady pursuit of sexual pleasure, it can only mean one thing – they’re avoiding pain in one or more areas of their lives.

Not convinced..? Why then, the constant references to “No Strings Attached”..? A clear reference to actual or potential pain avoidance. Moreover, fags are seasoned travellers, well versed in finding men in any city. There's no shortage of action. With all the muscular attractions, why do they have chemical addictions as part of sexual hedonism..?

The answer is an ironic paradox. For all their erogenous zones and creative sexuality, deep inside, many fags have shut down a part of their psyche that is steeped in emotional pain. That pain is the result of some human interaction, or leftover baggage. The multiple NSA encounters are compulsive and automatic, fucking and sucking in a state of trance. It guarantees a level of sensation without emotional resonance.

The problem is, the deeper the pain, the greater the level of sensation needed to suppress it. When the usual compulsive sexual rush isn’t enough, it’s time to reach for the chem du jour to guarantee the "hit".

And so the cycle repeats. Sex and drugs compound on each other. Progressively heavier levels of both are required to get a more powerful “rush” each time to ease the emotional pain.

The loop is easy to see: pain, hedonism, obsession, addiction, pain. Ever wondered why so many urban fags claim to have so many  "friends", while avoiding emotional attachment and yet... are utterly hostile to other fags while being “chem friendly” as they're sucking or being sucked..?

Originally published 15 May 2006
Amended and Republished 6 September 2011 | 7 August 2018

Memo To Fags 13

To: Fags
From: FuelMix

Putting an online ad is like putting money in a lousy term deposit at the bank.  You'll keep renewing it knowing you're getting only minimal interest.

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Monday, September 05, 2011

If It's Up, I'm Looking

FuelMix invited his readers to participate in a poll indicating their experiences in Gay Online Ads.  Multiple answers were allowed.  The choices were as follows:
  • Love ‘em! Score every time!
  • No responses – ever
  • Other guy hasn’t read my ad properly
  • He never had any intention of hooking up and neither did I
  • He sent incomplete stats and / or I did
  • My pic’s a fake and /or his pic’s a fake
  • Fades away even if I did everything right
  • Tries to blame me for not hooking up
  • Fuckin’ pic collector
  • Wasn’t my type when we met
  • Fuckin’ waste of time and demoralizing
  • Attracts the same losers over and over again

After a slow and flippant start (Love ‘em! Score every time!), it occurred to fags that perhaps they should think more as means of eliciting accurate feedback from other fags.  Then the truth started to emerge.  The final salient results looked like this:

  • Fuckin’ waste of time and demoralizing – overwhelming response;
  • Fades away even if I did everything right
  • Fuckin’ pic collector
  • No responses – ever
  • Attracts the same losers over and over again
The question that was screaming to be asked was, “then why do it”?  if the actual, behavioural and emotional failure rate is so high, why keep going back?

FuelMix is guessing here but it might be a combination of habit, awake late at nite, a drug-fucked state, acknowledged resignation, faint hope and revenge.  Revenge?........yeah do to someone else what the fag hated having had done to him.  Since the offending party faded away even if the fag did everything right, the only other option is to bait an innocent on the conveyor belt of wannabe hookups.

It’s not emotionally intelligent, but it’s a cheap way of salvaging self-esteem.  However,  it perpetuates a vicious cycle.  The recently attacked innocent turns around and does it to another.  FuelMix suspects that the vast majority of online advertising is done by fags “wounded” multiple times.  Why else would “attracts the same losers over and over again” figure in the final score?

Granted, only 29 people voted, but somehow FuelMix suspects that they spoke for the Silent Majority. Perhaps the multiple choices were cutting too close to the bone.

Or maybe the rest were just in denial.......read more about the antics of fags online in the highlight strip below:



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Saturday, September 03, 2011

White Noise 2

From a reader: 

I read your post White Noise 1 and you pretty much nailed it.  I guess the next question is which gay saunas in HK would you say whites would be more welcome in – other than Central Escalator?

FuelMix says:

Any rankings are purely subjective and could change next week, given how fickle gay sauna customers are.  For the record, descriptions of "White Friendly" or "Not White Friendly" are based on observing both management and clientele.  It's completely unscientific.  So..... for what it’s worth:

1.  Blatantly White
Central Escalator – SoHo Central

2.  Very White Friendly
Alexander – Mong Kok

3.  Whites Known To Show
ABC – Tsim Sha Tsui
Action – Causeway Bay
Colony – Prince Edward
Galaxy – Tsim Sha Tsui
Ni chome – Tsim Sha Tsui

4.  Whites Rumoured To Show
Chaps – North Point
Follow Me – SoHo Central

5.  White Friendly But Whites Don’t Show
KK Fitness – Jordan
Big Top *Mong Kok
Club Houzz *Mong Kok
* as at 3 September 2011, these are the 2 newest gay saunas in town, so there is certainly potential for whites to show up there

6.  Not White Friendly
Hunter – Yau Ma Tei
My Way Platinum – Wanchai
QQ Fitness – Wanchai
Rainbow - Jordan

7.  Unclear/Misleading/ Ambiguous  On Whites
Double – Mong Kok
Gateway – Wanchai

FuelMix has a feeling this post is destined to become a classic.......... 

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Friday, September 02, 2011

The Joy Of Dissatisfaction

Complacency is a dangerous thing. In the fag world, it's more dangerous than ever. Tons of guys living in close proximity wandering around in a fog, grinning like Flight Attendants - but seething inside, too fearful , too sick or too emotionally paralysed to say anything that implies analysis or question or worse, upsetting the happy facade of "our community".

They sigh and say "So Many Men, So Little Time" wistfully looking at the newest brokeass, bubble butt pretty boy. What they should be saying is "So Many Men, So Little Choice".

This isn't a Blog about bashing fags in the ghetto. (For the record, FuelMix has never lived in a gay ghetto). It's not about righteousness and morality. It's about taking a long hard look at "the lifestyle" and its influence. Growing up gay was never easy. Operating as gay with what's presently around, is infuriating, debilitating and unworkable.

A few years ago over lunch, FuelMix warned his guest that his life (and finances) would improve if he had the guts to move out of the fag ghetto and ditch the fag mentality.  He needed to take the risk of formulating his own values as a gay man, rather than be a gay sheep.  His guest squealed, "why do you hate us so much?"

FuelMix replied, "I don't hate you, I hate the way you people live and how your force others to conform and live.  You people bitch about freedom, only to take it away from each other."

As a gay man, only you can decide what your standards are. Only you can decide whether you have them or you need to raise them.

FuelMix loves raunchy, wild, fuckin' aggressive sex with hot men - and always will. God knows FuelMix has done and still does, stuff that would make Sodom and Gommorrah look like shrines.

But FuelMix also senses deep fundamental Changes are coming.........the whole emotional and behavioural stunts of Faggotry are a crock and a sham...........something inside is shifting and the paradigm structure of Faggotry is collapsing even as fags continue to dance all night to their club tracks.

Can you feel it.......or are you just another drug-fucked statistic waiting for a body bag? 

Originally published 28 April 2006
Amended and Republished 2 September 2011

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Thursday, September 01, 2011

Ni Chome Sauna 4

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              2723 - 1881      end_of_the_skype_highlighting

Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna


Pros
  • Easy, discreet location in Tsim Sha Tsui
  • Sensible opening hours 11am – 11pm
  • At HK$80.00 (September 2011), it’s pretty reasonable
  • Clean
  • No Karaoke
  • Plays Western and Jap porn
  • Large, well lit playrooms, big enough for groups
  • Adequate sized Steam Room
  • Draws a crowd easily
  • Whites and foreigners show up (See Ni  chome Sauna 1)
  • GAM Muscleboys show up
  • Nude all the time

 Cons
  • Dark, dim uninspiring decor
  • Claustrophobic feel
  • Can reek of attitude
  • Tons of Stand & Model, or Sit & Model
  • All playrooms can be in use, so have to stand in narrow corridor
  • No Dry Sauna
  • No Jacuzzi
  • No free drinks machine or free fruits or snacks
  • Large numbers of slim or out of shape Fuglies
  • Over – Macho GAM Muscleboys can also be Fuglies

Would FuelMix Go Back? 

For the sheer fun of pissing off a GAM muscleboy and giving him some competition, yeah.

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Ni-chome Sauna 3

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881

Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna

The Clientele 

FuelMix saw a couple of middle aged white guys there who were obviously getting action.  But the majority of the clientele were local chink fags in their 20s and 30s. They looked like lower to mid-range office professionals and were not buff. Most were slim to slightly gym toned.  Most were below average to look at and many were downright Fugly.

There were several gym built muscular chink fags there.  They stood out because of their sun tans and ridiculous “I’m so macho” jarhead, military-inspired haircuts, that were both extreme and dreadful on the back and sides.  They all seems to have gone to the same barber who botched their collective attempt to be str8 looking, str8 acting.  The look was completed with a dog tag.  In some cases, the muscleboys had pierced nipples and cockrings.

Truth be told, the muscleboys were not that handsome and the majority were stocky or disproportionately developed.  But the slim chinks were in heaven at the sight of muscle and cruised them aggressively.

The chink muscleboys were initially, not amused on seeing a foreign muscular dude like FuelMix.   It wasn't helped when one of the staff members came into the Locker Room to watch FuelMix change,  all the while smiling and nodding approvingly.  One of the white fags also came over to croon.  Consequently, there was no shortage of attitudinal leering by the slim and muscled chinks and it took a while for FuelMix to get action.  


Eventually FuelMix got serviced 3 times by a succession of slim chinks and happily kept the room door open and the light on so that the dog-tagged muscleboys could see what they were missing.  It was only after the show that one or two of the muscleboys grinned and waved at FuelMix as he left.  Presumably, FuelMix had earned his stripes.  Go figure.

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Ni-chome Sauna 2

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881

Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna

Getting There 

This one is in Tsim Sha Tsui, near the corner of Nathan Road and Haiphong Road. It’s part of a cluster of gay saunas in the vicinity (ABC, Galaxy and Ni chome). All of them can be reached from the same MTR exit and all are within walking distance of Star Ferry. 

The building is easy to find, it’s directly opposite the southern part of Kowloon Park. There’s an old security guard sitting at a desk at the foot of the stairs. Ni chome  is located on the 8th Floor. Take the antiquated elevator or walk up the stairs and have a quick peek at the shops on the different floors.

There’s a brown unmarked door on the 8th Floor. Look up and you’ll see a camera looking at you. The front door is actually open.  Just push it and enter.  The Reception counter is on your Left. The dude on duty doesn’t speak much English, but seemed polite enough.  If you’re new to the place, he’ll mention that it’s a Nude Sauna.

Current entry price is HK$80.00

Decor And Layout

Locker Room

Once the cash is paid and the towel is handed out, push the door just behind you. It opens right into the narrow locker room and the shower. The décor is all in dark brown, walls and floors included.  The first impressions are of an RV decked out in naugha hide and leatherette. The locker room is close and intimate, you can easily reach out and touch someone.

There are 78 lockers there, of differing sizes, although for some reason, the larger ones couldn’t store shoes properly.

The Locker Room is very dimly lit.  In fact, the entire premises are dimly lit, save for harsh lighting just above the sink, near the entrance.

An incoming fag can expect to be stared at while changing.  In addition to being dimly lit, the premises are a bit dinky so the fags have to stand somewhere.  Many are propped up against the Lockers.

The Wet Area

Step into the dimly lit showers and wonder what the hell a disco ball is doing there, hanging from the ceiling. It’s a tiny shower area, and FuelMix got rimmed by a chink fag, while the fags in the Locker Room watched.  Shower pressure is adequate, although it could be stronger and the temperature adjusts easily.

To the left of the shower area are 2 toilets.  They can be a bit swampy since they share the same drain with the showers.

The to the left of the toilets is the Steam Room.  It’s also in black, heats up nicely and is a pretty good square size.  It has a small partition.  Predictably, there was group action going on.

The TV Lounge

Just off the locker room is the TV lounge. Again, it’s dimly lit and has sofas, a water cooler and a single computer station.  It also has naked attitudinal chink fags posing there or vainly attempting to flip through the naked gay mags in atrocious lighting.


The Dark Area 

Turn sharp left at the end of the Locker Room and there’s a small dark passage. This is the hidden gem of Ni-Chome. It’s an F-shaped corridor with a number of surprisingly large private rooms with vinyl mattresses and pillows. There are strip mirrors along the sides adding to the visual enjoyment of fuck action. All rooms have condoms and lubes and paper towels. Some have porn screens in them. All rooms are big enough for groups.

While the rooms may be roomy, the corridors of the Dark Area are not and the general ambience is one of claustrophobia.  Depending on the time of day, there may be tons of chink fags propped up against the wall, many with attitude and the universal head swivel.  Since the place is so dark and crowded, it can be hard to zero in on somebody.  The best advice is to scope them in the Locker Room and decide there if the fag is a Fugly (and there are tons of them in Ni chome) or potentially doable.  Then figure out a way of tracking them in the Dark Area.

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Ni-chome Sauna 1

8th Floor, Parmanand House, 
51 – 52 Haiphong Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, 
Hong Kong
MTR:  Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A

No website that FuelMix knows of
Tel: 2723 - 1881

Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm
Note:  Nude Sauna

From a reader:

Hey Fuelmix,

Just started reading some of your reviews of saunas and decided that I'd visit Ni-Chome. 

Went with a mate, at about 8:15 on a Monday evening, there was a mix of Filipino, Indian, Chinks and the one GWM. Got some group action with my mate starting off fucking me doggy style when all of a sudden, our room was filled with at least 5 other men in line to have me suck them off. Had a great evening and hit the showers dripping with cum. Loved the locker area; had several men brush past me with their cocks just walking by.

Must say, the clientele is generally in the late 20s to mid/late 30s...nothing that shouts "I want a piece of that!" or "I want you deep inside me / in my throat"........

For the entrance fee of 60 bucks after 8:00 PM, I would definitely revisit.

Great blog!
Much love,
J------

 
FuelMix says:  Interesting observation that their clientele appears to be broadening out in terms of ethnicity - and on a Monday evening too.  The entrance fee may be HK$60.00 after 8pm but bear in mind the place will probably empty out by 10:30pm and close by 11pm.  Timing is everything.  Thanks for the update.

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