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Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Diversity 101

Rainbow flags and screaming fags not necessary:





Look at the world through the eyes of a thinking gay man and question everything conventional gay thought tells you.

Originally published 9 March 2009. 
Amended and republished 29 September 2012 | 30 September 2014

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Images copyright: Telegraph Media Group Limited 2009

In 3 D

A reader sent in this ad that he spotted on a gay personals site:

"Its official.  Bored from all [ name of city ] guys. (And its surroundings.)

Is there any mother fucker out there who is not taken, not into drugs, not a liar, not a [name of city] "queen", not a guy who thinks he's the lost Armani model the world is expecting because he has a bit of muscle......mmm.......Anyone with a brain beyond an iphone/blackberry/sunglasses/labels/man purses/small & cliquey group friends, shyness covered with attitude......Anyone?..."

FuelMix read it and thought, "Purrrfect".  If ever there was an ad that summarized the Three Dimensional Despair, Dismay and Disgust in the face of the putrid smell of today's Urban Faggotry this was it. Hence the title of this post.

Originally published 10 September 2013
Republished 30 September 2014

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Monday, September 29, 2014

Do I Sound Gay...?

Gay men and the way they speak........

A compelling new documentary is bringing together some of the biggest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) celebrities to discuss a question that probably crosses the mind of every gay man at some point in his life: Do I sound gay? 

From director David Thorpe, "Do I Sound Gay?" aims to present an intelligent and and provocative cultural analysis of the "gay voice." Throughout this process, Thorpe talks to linguists, celebrities, historians, voice coaches and total strangers to share their own thoughts and experiences surrounding the idea of 'sounding gay.'
"Confession: I’ve always been self-conscious about 'sounding gay'.......It’s one of the main things that 'gives me away' as gay. Three years ago, I decided I’d had enough. I knew that my anxiety came from my internalized homophobia telling me: Gay = bad, so sounding gay = bad. So, I decided to make 'Do I Sound Gay?'"
 -----'Do I Sound Gay' Documentary Engaged In Kickstarter, by James Nichols, The Huffington Post, 30 April 2014

At the time HuffPo reported it, the short film was in the process of attracting crowdfunding via Kickstarter.  Fast forward to September 2014 and the film was shown at the Toronto Film Festival - and will probably become a staple at gay film festivals around the planet.  Semi-documentary, semi-lighthearted, semi-angst-ridden........

Here's the trailer:


 
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Memo to Fags 23

To: Fags
From: FuelMix

FuelMix understands that prolonged drug use can result in memory loss.  As can juggling too many lies at one time.

Presumably, that explains the imbecile propensity of fags responding to an online ad, to first send an email with stats and pics of a circumcised cock - only to follow it up with another e-mail of a cock that is clearly un-cut.

Or worse......to upload both versions of "their" cock pics to their Craigslist ads as part of "their" stats.

Sort of like the yet-to-be-made Hollywood movie, "Dude, where's my foreskin....?" 

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Sunday, September 28, 2014

Hutong Sauna 10

2/F Kar Wong Building
639 - 645 Shanghai Street
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2

(Cross Shanghai Street from Mong Kok Station Exit A2Building entrance is actually on the pedestrian-only part of Fife Street)

Tel: 2396 9595
Web: Hutong Sauna
Open 24 hours    

Received from a reader today. (Side Headings and minor editing by FuelMix):

Hi FIM

It must has been a while since I wrote to you last time. I had been following your blog since the first time I found your site and below is a review of the Hutong sauna and hope it can help your readers. Please edit the article for me if necessary.


1.  Getting There And Finding It

It was a Saturday afternoon at the end of September. I arrived by 5pm and found the location easy to find and access from the MTR exit but I admit that reading Chinese did help a lot. The sauna was situated in a block of flats and there was an iron gate on the entrance. A panel of buttons supposedly for the residents are fitted outside by the gate. However, the one for Hutong sauna was on top of the panel and apparently a camera was fitted in the wall too, so it may give the ability for Hutong to select its preferred customers by seeing through the camera. The entrance was on a side street so it's quite discreet.


2.   Getting In, Payment And Staff Attitude

After passing the first gate, up about 2 stories in a stairway and directions were given twice to lead to the final destination. There was a doorbell outside the sauna but as you have been permitted in the first gate, you should have no problem on entering this one. 

The admission: $159, but they won't expect to give you the $1 change so the actual price was $160, making it the most expensive sauna in town ( I guess?). 

One of the staff on duty was very cold and didn't greet. Maybe he was spoiled by the flattering customers who tried to pass the strict door policy imposed since its predecessor, Double sauna.


3.   Layout

  The place was new and tidy. Immediately after the reception there was a changing room and a dining room. There were complimentary drinks ( cold as in Chrysanthemum tea and peach juice drinks, as well as hot tea and coffee). I also noticed that some customers had their bowls of noodles, whether this was free or payable, had to be confirmed. 

After the changing room there was a lounge flanked with a rest room.  They were both clean and sizable. That was the upper floor and the main part of the sauna was on the lower floor.

Immediately after the stairs it's an area of showers, a steam room and a sauna. Following a narrow passage, it's the maze+ dark rooms+ cabins where the action took place. On entering, there were an array of hooks with numbers on both side of the wall for towels, supposedly, the maze was a nude zone. The maze was designed in a way that it's so narrow that people had to rub into others when passing. In many occasions it's so jammed that one just couldn't get through. It's could be fun as well as annoying.


4.   The Clientele

Clientele wise, mainly GAM from 20-40 and most were in shape and many were muscular. Only 2 out of the 50-ish customers were GWM both in their 30s and fit. None from other race groups were seen.

Plenty of standing and modelling behaviour and tons of attitude. Apparently, this is a sauna for Muscle Marys and they were looking for other Muscle Marys or just to be served .


5.  The Verdict.......Would I Go Back.....?

The place was very clean and sizeable but other than that, I didn't find it fun. 

I went to Double a couple of years ago and the attitude of that place pissed me off and I never went back. I was hoping for an improvement of its successor, Hutong, in terms of the attitude and atmosphere, but I found it the same. 

Maybe it's what some people like it to be. For me, I would never go back considering that there are 4 flagship saunas in MK area. I couldn't care less, but it seems it suits FIM well though(lol).


FuelMix says:

FuelMix has not yet been to Hutong.  Deliberately.  He keeps hearing stuff about this place - which he will not publish - that goes beyond their alleged door policy and staff attitude.  He decided to let the readers run the reviews on this one.

At HK$159 / 160.00 "official" entry fee, this appears to be the most expensive gig in town. (And too cheap to give a buck in change...???!!!)  You may have paid that because you are not a "special" or VIP customer or didn't have a Membership Card.  We know that certain GAM muscleboys get in for virtually nothing.

Thanks for the update. 

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Saturday, September 27, 2014

Three Little Maids

.......a twist on Gilbert & Sullivan's The Mikado........1 minute and 45 seconds of your time. Double click to see it in full screen.


Friday, September 26, 2014

Cruise Control

After a particularly satisfying session in the gym, FuelMix dropped into the gay sauna for some well earned servicing.

Cruising around, there was no shortage of attention but no one who appeared to have the staying power to deliver that dirty, raunch-ridden servicing FuelMix requires. An Ageing White Fag clutching a bottle of poppers, latched on to FuelMix diligently shadowing him through the highways, byways, alleys and dead ends. He kept grinning and licking his lips.

FuelMix was not particularly interested but, not wishing to be needlessly rude, stopped and smiled at the Ageing White Fag and asked what he was into.

AWF: I wanna suck you and swallow your load…mmmm.....[strokes FuelMix’s bod] just love your muscles….shall we go to a room? I’ll do anything you want….you can fuck me too…..

FM: I need to be serviced all over….and then I need to fuck.

AWF: That’s good…I’m willing to service every part of you.

FM: I only get sucked with a condom...I can pull it off and let you swallow at the end if you want. And I only fuck with condoms.

AWF [visibly annoyed] Oh no! I’m not buying that. I hate the taste of condoms. And I’m healthy.

FM: So am I. And that’s the way I prefer to keep it.

AWF: You don’t get HIV from sucking you know. There’s no risk to you. I’m the bottom and I’m at more risk coz I swallow and eat ass.

FM: There are interesting things you can get from unprotected sucking – even as the Top.

AWF [even more annoyed] You’re a coward! A muscled prettyboy and that’s it! I’m wasting my time [storms off muttering].

FuelMix shrugged, grateful to be rid of him. It wasn’t the first time that a fag in a sauna had spewed venom at FuelMix for having the temerity to take control of his body. It won’t be the last time either. Wrapped up in the (increasingly drug-fucked) haze of carnal hedonism, the notion of action and consequences is either a novel concept to the average urban fag, or an irritating technicality that can be negotiated.

Originally published 27 November 2008
Republished 26 September 2014

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Sunday, September 21, 2014

The Twink 6

COMPLETED 22 SEPTEMBER 2014

When A Gay Twink Has a Crush On A Str8 Twink 

 From Infatuation to Immaturity to Intelligence 
+
  Help From FuelMix

(via What's App)

1.  The Twink's Excitement

Twink:  FuelMix !!! I met a cute white blonde guy and we exchanged phone numbers.  I've just finished dinner with him.  So fucking excited now.  Hope he's gay...!!!

FuelMix:  U mean u don't know.....????

Twink:  Yes I don't know

FuelMix:  So he's a student?

Twink:  Yes.....living in the same university residential building

(2):  I actually don't have any expectations and assume he's str8 - but I'm so thrilled to be with him

FuelMix:  OK....enjoy his company.  Whether he's str8 or gay u found a buddy

Twink:  He is really nice but i m just afraid i will get hurt

FuelMix:  Why would he hurt you?

Twink:  I'm afraid of loving him n finally realize he likes girls

FuelMix:  Why don't u just ask him?

Twink:  I would scare him.  Just know him for 2 or 3 days

FuelMix:  How did u meet?

Twink:  University residential function

FuelMix:  OK....just be yourself.  I suspected sometime ago u were more interested in white guys

Twink:  do u think someday i should tell him i like guys more than girls?

FuelMix:  I think if u were smart......u would listen carefully to his conversation and u can figure it out from there.  Then u would not embarrass him or u by saying something too quickly.

Twink:  u know i m stupid

FuelMix:  Yes i know that

Twink:  i think i should wait n chat with him more first........OMG i can't stop thinking of him and smiling 


(The Next Day via What's App)

2.  FuelMix Declares His Confusion

Twink:  I miss you FuelMix

FuelMix:  I am totally confused.  I thought u have a crush on that cute white guy whom u hope is gay

Twink:  Yes I think I have a crush on him.......why r u confused?

FuelMix:  Bcoz I am not sure why u r missing me when u have a crush on someone else.....and don't know whether that guy is gay

Twink:  He is always on my mind......but u r important to me.......r u feeling uncomfortable?

FuelMix:  I am confused bcoz u have a crush on someone who u hope is gay

Twink:  so do u think i'm stupid....?  that i shouldn't have a crush on him?

FuelMix (1):  Not jealous at all.  Just concerned you've gone str8 into a crush without knowing his sexuality for sure.  U could be risking heartbreak.....

(2)  And u could be risking the friendship with him as well



(The Next Day via What's App)


Twink:  FuelMix I miss u.....i hv told my friends i have a crush on that guy and they gave me suggestions.  I want to be as attractive as him, so i'm going to the gym these days!!

FuelMix:  I have no more to say on this



(The Next Day via WhatsApp)

3.  FuelMix Refuses To See The Twink Until The Crush On the Str8 Guy Is Resolved


Twink:  It seems FuelMix is disappointed in me

FuelMix:  I have already given my comments a month ago about being desperate for a BF and how dangerous that is....

(2):  Since u and i have very different views on this, the best thing is for me not to get involved 

(3):  Since your priority is this cute white guy who u hope is gay, the sensible thing to do is for u to have your own space and figure out what u are doing

(4):  The best thing is for us not to see each other for a while.  U have your views, u are taking advice from your friends (and that's OK and is your choice) and u have seen my view

(5):  That's why I've decided not to meet u for a while

Twink:  U seem a little bit annoyed

FuelMix:  This will give u space to see how yr friendship or relationship with the cute white guy works out.  If he's gay, good news for you.  If he's str8 then you will have to decide what to do.  In either case you will not be influenced by me coz I have no right to interfere.

Twink:  Actually I know the possibility of him being gay is very low.  But I really enjoy his company.  Even if he's str8 I want to express my feelings to him.  Maybe it would ruin our relationship but that's fine - becoz if one day I see him with a GF that would be more cruel to me.

FuelMix:  That's why I'm staying out of your way

(2):  I am not stopping you from being his friend - in fact I hope u are, whether he's str8 or gay

Twink:  If we are just friends and I see him with a GF, I would break the friendship earlier.  I can't stand it if I see someone I love falling in love with others

FuelMix:  I strongly disagree with this " I hv a crush on this cute guy and i really hope he's gay" nonsense.  U are setting yourself up for a broken heart and i do not wish to be involved in that

(2):  Whichever way it turns out, u have to deal with it.  It's part of how you grow up.

(3):  That's why I have decided not to see you until you sort out your actual relationship with this cute white guy.  Sooner or later you have to decide whether you have been accurate, stupid or naive

(4):  Without my interference - becoz I think what u are doing is risky

Twink:  I want the experience

FuelMix:  Exactly.....go ahead.....without being influenced by me......I won't be seeing you for a while......Go back and read everything I've written since u first met met till now.  You'll find the answers there for dealing with your cute white friend and / or your stupidity

Twink:  OK....you're turning this into an adventure......thank you to the smartest guy ever !!

FuelMix:  When u have sorted out your cute white friend and your thinking, you can contact me and tell me what you learned from this experience.  Then I'll meet you.

Twink:  Then you'll tease me, right...??

FuelMix:  Depends on how smart or stupid you are

Twink:  You haven't said it but in your mind you assume that I'm going to fail in this game and the cute white guy is str8.

FuelMix:  I never said you would fail.  I said what you were doing was risky.



(The Next Day via WhatsApp)

4.  FuelMix Injects Clarity via 2 Videos And Forces A Resolution of The Twink's Crush On the Str8 Guy

FuelMix:  [ Sends 2 videos, see below ]

Twink:  I watched the first one......really sad......I am not in the mood to watch the second one


(The Next Day via WhatsApp)


FuelMix:  Not depressed by the videos I hope

Twink:  Just a little bit

FuelMix:  Listen sweet boy (and sometimes idiot)......improve yourself as a person who loves HIMSELF first - and people will come running to you

(2)  When you show that you can love yourself, guys will wanna hang around you

(3)  You NEVER have to hope a cute guy is gay so that u can find love

Twink:  It's not the first time I'm hearing these comments.  Other people have said the same thing - so I have a new haircut, started going to the gym, try to respect myself and become better

FuelMix:  What about internally as a person.....? It's not just about your looks.  It's about you as an emotionally intelligent person - not an idiot

Twink:   I am trying to develop my self-esteem.......is there any way that I can find out this cute white guy's sexuality, let him know I like guys and still keep the friendship?

FuelMix:  You can do what I do.....when str8 guys in the gym ask if i have a GF, I simply tell them I'm gay and happily single.  They are still my friends, they invite me out and we respect each other's choices........

(2)  But I don't say anything first unless they ask me

(3)  Becoz if u tell them first that yr gay.......str8 guys feel scared and think u want them.......

(4)  But if u answer a question that they asked first, they can't blame you for anything, coz u r just truthfully answering the question

Twink:  That's really good

(2)  But is it necessary for me to say "happily single"?

FuelMix:  I would......becoz u won't sound desperate........desperation drives people away


(The Next Day via Whatsapp)


Twink:  The cute white guy has a GF......I found out from his roommate and then asked him for confirmation.......I don't feel sad

FuelMix:  You're very brave.  Let it go and move on

(2):  Does he know about you?

Twink:  No I didn't tell him

(2)  Now I have no one to love.  I will love myself


The 2 videos that FuelMix Sent The Twink

1.  STRAIGHT FRIEND CRUSHES
 


2.  FALLING FOR A STRAIGHT FRIEND


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Friday, September 19, 2014

ABC Sauna 23

6/F Cheong Hing Building, 
72 Nathan Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, Hong Kong
MTR: Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A 2

Tel: 2301 - 4500
Note: NOT open 24 hours. 
Opening times 2pm to 1am.  Call to confirm. 
Staff speak good English.


Where the Whites (Now) Are...???

Remember those famous lines from Jeff Wayne's musical version of Orson Welles' War of the Worlds......??

The chances of anything coming from Mars
Are a million to one he said.......
The chances of anything coming from Mars
Are a million to one.......
But still......they come.......

Yes fags......according to our friendly GAM throat on the street, the white weekday arrivals at ABC continues (no silly jokes about them cumming from Uranus please.....)

Are they good looking....?  Our GAM says pretty average, with the occasional decent looking one.  And according to him, it's a wide age range including wide bodies.  But, he says, there's no doubt they've discovered ABC and are showing up as an alternative to that historical white asylum, Central Escalator.

As usual, no guarantees.  We just faithfully report on-the-street chatter.

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Thursday, September 18, 2014

Talking to Adam 12

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years.  We're both in our 20s and we live together in a small flat.  We both work in retail.

We don't go to the bars because we really don't feel like it.  Are we faithful to each other....?  No, not really. I think from the beginning it was just assumed that both of us would sleep around.  It's a delicate subject for us.  We don't discuss it in case we get into fights.  I guess we approach sleeping around in the same way as going to the toilet for a piss and a shit.  Everybody does it and nobody kicks up a drama.

So, yeah...... I go to the saunas alone and so does he.  We don't discuss what we did with the other guy.  The two rules that we have is no kissing the other guy on the mouth and no anal sex, whether as top or bottom.

Sometimes we both go to the saunas together and play with the same guy.  But we only kiss and fuck each other.

But when I'm at the sauna alone, I'm terrified I'll run into my boyfriend.  I can't explain it......just terrified that I'll run into him.  Seems irrational because we both know we're doing it.

Sometimes I think of monogamy and whether that would be a cool thing.  But it seems that everywhere you look around in "gay culture" nobody wants it or they just brush it off and declare it would never work because all gay men are liars and cheats.

In the early mornings, when my boyfriend is sleeping next to me, I look at him with so much love and so much sadness.  I love him very much but I know he's cheating on me - and he knows I'm cheating on him.  Yeah, we have the rules about not kissing other guys on the mouth and not fucking him, but it's just "cheating with permission", or being "honest liars".

There are times I want to cry and say, "can we stop sleeping around and just sleep with each other....?" or "do you know how much I love you and want you all to myself....?".  But I'm too scared to say those words in case we have a fight and break up.  And we probably would.

I don't know why we can't talk about it.  I wish we could.  Why has "gay culture" painted me as an automatic liar and a cheat.....?  And then I'm supposed to act like one, because it's expected of me.

It's as if the whole thing is set up to do away with any kind of monogamous stable relationship.......so why the hell do these gay guys want "marriage".....??  It makes no sense to me.

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Monday, September 15, 2014

QQ Fitness 8

3/F King Dao Building
14 Burrows Street
Wanchai
Hong Kong 
MTR: Wanchai Station, Exit A3

Tel: 2834 0554   or 2527 7073
Web: www.geocities.com/qqsauna 
Open 24 hours


FuelMix Has Written Off QQ Fitness. Will Not Show Up.  
No More Reviews.

(Readers may submit their own reviews)


1.   An update from our friendly GAM-on-the-street who tells us that he showed up on a Sunday evening.  There was a crowd of average looking GAMs there 30-something and up.  Nothing to look at and most were glued to the TV watching the Chinese language variety show. A massively boring place - that has increased its standard entrance fee from HK$88.00 to HK$98.00.  

2.   In other words, it's overpriced for what you get.......or, what you don't get, depending on your point of view.

3.   FuelMix has written off QQ Fitness as a waste of time and money.  He will not be showing up there or uploading his reviews.  Readers may submit their own.

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Sunday, September 14, 2014

Spank Me

A right wing politico in God’s Own Country owns a clinic with her husband.  The clinic offers counselling services.  Apparently, the politico’s husband claimed in an interview that gays needed “discipline”.

True to form, a gaggle of politically correct queers descended on the clinic demanding a spanking as part of their “discipline”.  Since neither the politico nor her husband were there, they sprinkled glitter and left.

Yeah,  it’s amusing.  But if one thinks about it, the notion that gays need “discipline” is entirely correct.  Let’s take a random walk down Faggot Lane and find out:

  • Mindlessly surfing gay porn for hours – lack of discipline;
  • Spewing venom on gay bulletin boards, Facebook and Twitter – lack of discipline;
  • Mindlessly hanging out in a gay chat room for hours and / or surfing gay porn at the same time – lack of discipline;
  • Constantly checking social networking sites for nothing in particular – lack of discipline;
  • Simply ignoring replies to online ads – lack of discipline and lack of courage;
  • Constantly lying online – lack of discipline and lack of courage;

  • Constantly lying in person – lack of discipline and lack of courage;
  • Showing up “fashionably late” – lack of discipline;
  • Addiction to cigarettes – lack of discipline;
  • Addiction to poppers – lack of discipline;
  • Addiction to drink – lack of discipline;
  • Addiction to weed – lack of discipline;
  • Addiction to amphetamines, crack, crystal, E, K– lack of discipline;

  • Making a drama out of mindless gossip – lack of discipline;
  • Cheating on your Significant Other without telling him – lack of discipline and lack of courage;
  • Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy in a so called “relationship” – lack of discipline and lack of courage;
  • Irregular sleeping patterns caused by internet or chemical addiction – lack of discipline;

  • Chem-crazed sex in a gay sauna – lack of discipline;
  • Unsafe sex – lack of discipline;
  • Doing chems at a circuit party – lack of discipline;
  • Doing a line over a coffee table or a toilet seat – lack of discipline;
  • Cruising for hours on the street plugged into an MP3 player – lack of discipline;
  • Throwing a hissy fit when rejected on the street or in the sauna – lack of discipline;

  • Hiring a guy to work for your company coz he’s also gay and cute – lack of discipline;
  • Professional gays crossing the line between appropriate and inappropriate behaviour – lack of discipline;
  • Poor personal financial habits – lack of discipline;
  • No life beyond this weekend's after party - lack of discipline;

Whoa fags, that quite a list going on there.  And that’s just in daily living in the life of a generic  fag.  Face it.  We’ve all been guilty of one or more of the above and FuelMix is no saint. 

But the difference between a fag and a thinking gay man is that the fag’s behaviour is marked by a pervasive lack of discipline and cognisance  – and the thinking gay man stops and says, “What will become of me if this continues………?” 

Originally published 28 July 2011.  
Republished 14 June 2012 | 14 September 2014

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Saturday, September 13, 2014

JD and Coke

FuelMix is not much of a drinker – not that he doesn’t like to drink, it’s just that he’s pretty focused on his workouts in the gym and is amazed at just how many calories beer and cocktails contain. Going to the gym and then hitting the booze is just counter-productive. 

But once in a while FuelMix gets the urge and this time, ordered a Jack Daniels and Coke at the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation). He hadn't been to the fag bar for a while. The bar tender squealed in surprise, beamed and said he’d bring the drink over. FuelMix thought nothing of it, found a quiet table and waited for his drink. 

The bar tender arrived with the drink.  All his shirt buttons and the top buttons of his Levis were undone. He sat down next to FuelMix, still holding the ordered JD and Coke. FuelMix thought it odd. In the past, the bar tender did occasionally flirt with FuelMix in that teasing harmless way. And it was well known that the bar tender had a white BF to whom he was said to be very faithful.

So...... what the hell was he doing semi-stripped, obviously horny and still holding the JD and Coke?

Bar tender leaned forward and started to gently pour the JD mix into FuelMix’s open mouth, while kissing FuelMix’s face and ears. The bar went quiet and FuelMix’s cock began to throb as he gulped down the poured drink. 

“I’ve always liked you”, whispered bar tender to FuelMix, “but I can’t do anything because I’m faithful.....”.

“Interesting”, thought FuelMix, remaining silent, “so this is the crossroads of fidelity and personal service...? Or is FuelMix, JD and coke a new pheromone.....?”

After a few pours, bar tender put down the JD mix and started to kiss FuelMix’s well defined chest licking his nipples thru his T-shirt, leaving small wet tongue stains on it. Then without warning, he pulled up FuelMix’s T-shirt and started licking FuelMix’s armpit and nipples. There was a murmur in the bar.  FuelMix felt slightly embarrassed. 

“Just fuck them...” whispered the bar tender as he smooched and moaned on FuelMix's chest and torso, “they already know I like you....”

FuelMix felt like a mushroom –  kept in the dark until ready to harvest. “And.....what about your BF....?” he enquired meekly, his T-shirt still pulled up around his neck, his arms in the air supported by the bar tender, who was tongue-washing his armpits.

"I’m still faithful – this is the closest I can ever get to you.....", murmured the bar tender in FuelMix's ear, undoing FuelMix’s jeans, sliding his hand through the underwear and wrapping it around FuelMix’s throbbing cock. He began to swirl his fingers around the frenulum and the cockshaft, admiring the thickness and its shape. 

“You don’t mind do you....?” he asked gently. But before FuelMix could reply,  the bar tender had stuck his tongue in his mouth while playing with FuelMix’s abs and cock. FuelMix sat still, his mouth feeling like a human Fleshlight that was being thrust into. The bar was deadly quiet. The other staff, well aware of the bar tender’s reputed fidelity, stood with their mouths open. 

“Can I have something to remember you by....?” asked the bar tender slyly. FuelMix took a large sip of the JD mix and beckoned bar tender closer as if to kiss him. Bar tender moved in, mouth open, wrapping his arms around FuelMix. 

FuelMix, gently held bar tender’s chin, caressed his face, put his lips to his partially opened mouth and streamed the JD mix from his mouth into the bar tender’s. Bar tender gulped it down, moaned and sank to his knees,to kiss FuelMix’s crotch through his jeans, leaving a noticeable wet patch.

Lifting his head, he sighed, “I’m still faithful.....but I feel so guilty...!. I shouldn’t do this..... Oh god, I shouldn’t be doing this.....!! I’m so sorry....”. He ran in the direction of the kitchen and toilet.

FuelMix adjusted his T-shirt, quietly finished his JD mix and left.  The other customers leered and nodded.

Originally published 11 September 2007
Amended and Republished 13 September 2014

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Tuesday, September 09, 2014

Gateway Sauna 3

1/F Kwong Ah Building
114 Thomson Road
Wanchai
Hong Kong
MTR Exit B3
Telephone: 2591 0500

Note: NOT open 24 hours.  
Usual hours appear to be 2pm to 1am.  Call beforehand.
Staff speak good English.

1.  Why...??

FuelMix can't explain exactly how he ended up in Gateway on a Sunday afternoon.  It had been over 4 years since he was last there (check his earlier review to see for yourselves). He had effectively written the place offNice, clean and tidy physically, it had not received good reviews from those who had shown up there and word on the street was the place was dead, boring and the guys were not good looking.

So how the fuck did FuelMix get "blown" away at this place....???  Is Gateway, like ABC and Action, undergoing a renaissance?  We are afterall, living in a changing world where everything that was, just isn't anymore.

......And the only way to survive, thrive - and get great sex - is to keep a really open mind without historical and anecdotal assumptions being set in stone......maybe that's why FuelMix ended up in Gateway on a Sunday afternoon. 


2.   Who Should Be Showing Up 

Theoretically, there should be no shortage of good looking guys showing up: 
  • There's a Thai Kick Boxing studio for men on the 2nd Floor of the building with some interesting-looking very fit Asian dudes; and 
  • Kwong Ah Building is in a very discreet location on Thomson Road, which is actually a side street; and 
  • This is the perfect location for that "Fuck-the-office-I-need-cock-mouth-and-ass-now" weekday afternoon, 2 hour horny break (in premises far superior to Central Escalator); and
  • Gateway is right in the middle of the 4 notorious "churches" in Wanchai; 

3.   What Happened On A Sunday Afternoon

On a Sunday afternoon, there were just a handful of people there.  All GAMs in their 30s, average looking. Not moving.  FuelMix didn't know what to think.  Was history gonna repeat itself and this place would be a dud....??

No.......the reality was that on a Sunday afternoon, the guys arrive at regular intervals.  Gateway doesn't fill up as fast as Big Top, Galaxy or Jungle, but they do show up. However, it is a quieter vibe.

The truth is that FuelMix attracted a ton of attention.  Granted, he was the only foreigner there for  four hours between 5pm and 9pm and has a nice looking muscled bod.  In the interests of honest reporting, FuelMix got serviced 5 times by 5 different local Asian guys (including a very tanned muscle dude) and didn't  have to go looking for the action.  Putting it bluntly, it was sequential.  He was simply standing under the shower, washing off the previous encounter when the next guy appeared, stopped, looked, smiled and licked his lips. Then it was off to the private rooms or the communal play area with the big raised mattress right at the end where the porn screens are.

Honest to God, that's exactly how it all went down.

It was utterly effortless and surreal. The 4 hours went by very quickly.  Some of FuelMix's admirers  started chatting before, during and after servicing him - even suggesting that FuelMix should drop by more often as he was a refreshing change from the average looking local.

The compliments came in thick and fast.  FuelMix was gratified by all the attention.

 
4.  Best Times To Show Up At Gateway

Chatting to the staff, FuelMix was told that the best times to show up in Gateway were:
  • Weekdays - 5pm to 8pm;
  • Weekends - 3pm to 8pm;
There are no major changes to report on the layout of the premises - except that FuelMix finally noticed that there are drilled peepholes on the door of each private room.  Those in the corridor can now watch.


5.  Would FuelMix Go Back.....?

Now that his assumptions on Gateway have been blown out of the water, FuelMix will simply keep his options open.

Then again, it's equally likely that such intense servicing was a one-off thing, triggered by being the foreign novelty value.  Who knows......if in future FuelMix showed up, the place might be totally boring - for him.

It would be fun to see more nationalities and gym fit types there though.  Sort of along the lines of what's apparently showing up in ABC and Action (also under the same ownership).

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Saturday, September 06, 2014

Action Sauna 16

1/F Overseas Building,
417 - 421 Hennessy Road
Causeway Bay
Hong Kong
MTR:  Causeway Bay, Exit B


Telephone: 2893 7027
Note:   NOT open 24 hours, except on weekends. 
Call to confirm opening times. 
Staff speak English. 


"OOOhhh.....FuelMix...!!" crooned the friendly GAM throat materializing out of the surging crowd  in Wanchai as FuelMix was dodging a tram, a bus and a BMW Series 7, in that order, vainly attempting to cross an uncooperative street, "are you going to the 3 churches to say your prayers....??" **


FuelMix giggled at the reference to the 3 notorious tearooms in Wanchai,** "No, idiot, I'm heading to the computer centre to buy some shit.....whaddya want.....??"

"I was in Action last week on a Saturday night", said the GAM matter-of-factly, with an enigmatic grin. 

"OK....you got me", said FuelMix aborting his lame attempt at being a traversing pedestrian, "sing..."

GAM:  I was there for 8 hours from 5pm to 1am.  I'd been there before on weekday evenings, but had  never seen anything like the crowd that shows up from Saturday afternoons onwards.  On Saturdays, the place gets packed......there's a regular stream of people coming through the door.  Guys of all types from 20-something GAMs to tourists to white guys.

FM:  What do the guys look like on  Saturday evenings?

GAM:  Much better than the shit that shows up during the week.  Action seems to make its money on Saturdays.  The guys are much fitter and better looking, some gym fit muscle types especially the Asians.

FM:   And the whites....?

GAM:  There were some white twinks there.....I spoke to one, he was a cute white Brazilian......but the other whites were, I would guess, mostly 30-somethings and up.  Some had good bodies.  One or two were pretty muscular and good looking.  Some were tourists.  One or two were older, fatter and hairy.

FM:  Are these whites and tourists the shit that shows up at Central Escalator?

GAM:  No, I don't think so.  They were much better looking.  And they were not in a hurry to leave because on Saturday nites, Action is open overnight.  I left at 1a.m. and more whites were coming in. So I'm guessing that the whites there were not interested in the bars.

FM:  So.....these whites and tourists like ABC in Tsim Sha Tsui on weekdays and Action on Saturday nights.....?

GAM:  Could be......they are under the same ownership.  Word gets around.

FM:  What about the GAMs.....locals or Mainland Chinese......what did they look like.....?

GAM: Mostly local GAMs, but definitely some Mainland Chinese 'coz these ************* are everywhere.  GAMs from 20 something and up. I even chatted to a 60 year old GAM who was a total bottom.  The majority of the GAMs were in shape, gym fit -  and some muscle boys with stupid attitude.  I would say the GAMs on a Saturday night were much better looking and in better shape.I'm told they come in all night.

FM:  What about the attitude?  Action is notorious for its attitude.

GAM:  Yeah.....it's there, but on that Saturday night, it didn't seem that bad because the place was really packed and everybody was checking everybody else out.  Group action in the showers, group action in the dry sauna, group action in the steam room, group action in the Dark Room. That night, it was actually pretty easy to get "action" in Action.  All the private rooms were being used one after the other.

(**  Actually, there are 4 notorious "churches" in Wanchai)

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Monday, September 01, 2014

The Twink 5

COMPLETED 1 SEPTEMBER 2014

4.  Empowering The Twink for The Future: Should a Gay Man Even Care...?

Feedback from readers:

1.   Hi FM
I am enjoying your story about the twink.  from my experience, a good number of Asian twinks tend to confuse love and sex and that sex, even once (whether good or bad) is a sign of undying love and devotion and that leads to a very determined attachment. In other words, finding a bonking buddy who thinks that one bonk means ‘committed relationship forever' isn’t hard if you’re hot or even halfway hot, getting rid of them is. I could also make the same observation about (not so attractive) women who, in my past, latched on to me simply because they misinterpreted my politeness for romantic interest.

2. Hey FM
Nice work on showing empathy, guidance and encouragement to the twink; I hope this influences others to do the same!

3. Well I'll be damned......If I didn't have a similar convo with a twink a few months ago. Good on you, he chose door #4 per your list for a while and it worked, but then happily he found a nice guy that he is in what looks like has a good chance of being a solid relationship. I suggested to him that out of respect for his current partner we should not chat for some time to let them build up emotional bonds and ability to communicate; plus it spares me the drama of him working through the relationship sandbox on my shoulder ;)  

FuelMix says:

(1)  Ignorance and Neediness

1.   Yeah.....absolutely right.....a lot of twinks (not just Asian ones) confuse love and sex - and that sex is a sign of undying love and devotion.  We don't blame them.  They're just a product of the pop culture as we once were.  That's because there's nothing in the high school or college curriculum or  in conventional Faggotry to explain the difference between love and sex - or even the rudiments for building a relationship, whatever the age difference.

2.   When institutionally imposed  behavioural ignorance is coupled with a gay twink's notion of poor body image, peer pressure, lack of parental support (some don't dare come out to their parents but suspect their parents know) and lack of self-esteem, they arrive at your door tailor-made for infatuation and neediness.


(2)  Infatuation Is Fun.....When You're The One Receiving It

3.  Initially, the attention is charming, disarming, innocently lovable and invigorating.  The twink hangs on to your every word, shyly holds your hand on the street when nobody is looking, plays footsie with you under the restaurant table, surprises you with a deep kiss at an almost-awkward moment then grins wickedly, is surprisingly eloquent and sincere in his compliments, adores your body and will service you to infinity, bares his heart and cries during awesome sex as you kiss the tears from his eyes; and wraps his arms around you deeply, sighing and hyperventilating -  that you thought was only fictionalized  in those trashy romance novels  sold in the airport departure lounge......


(3)  Realizations

4.   And then it hits.......

5.  The twink has placed his heart in your hands and - in addition to swallowing your cum - is offering to let you inject your psyche into his soul.  The rush of power that brings is mindblowing.  Whether the age difference between you and him is 5 years or 35 years, you as the "adult" are simultaneously Guru, Svengali, Rasputin and Stalin. You have the power to Enlighten, Entrap, Enchant or Eviscerate that young man-boy whose looking into your eyes or sleeping like a baby in your arms.

6.  At that point, you, the "adult", stand at the crossroads of your destiny.....FuelMix referred to what he'd written in Gay Man's Code of Honour 1 and Gay Man's Code of Honour 2. The relevant parts extracted below, were not pleasant reading: 


1.   Physical
  • If you’re “not into guys over 30” or “not into guys over 35 or 40”, what are you going to say when you reach 30, 35 or 40?  Apologize for yourself.....? 
  • Will you then turn into a predator for twinks and perpetuate yet another gay stereotype?
  • When you're over 30, 35, 40 or 50, will you get sex as an act of charity or because you're still smouldering and you can have any guy you want?
  • Is age something you dread or something you conquer and assimilate?
  • If age brings wisdom, are you acting your age or just your shoe size....?
  • Are you authentic for your age and comfort level......or are you just pretentious....?

3.   Emotional Intelligence
  • How much emotional intelligence do you have?
  • Do you even know what it is...?
  • Do you just replicate the emotional behaviour of other fags or do you question whether there is a better way that allows you to dump baggage rather than keep adding to it like other fags?
  • Does your Emotional Intelligence define your persona..?  A built body and a crippled, wounded psyche...?
  • If Emotional Intelligence drives behaviour, what corrections do you need to make...?

4.   How You Relate To Other Gay Men
  • What are your standards of integrity when dealing with other fags?
  • Do you have one standard of integrity online, another for when you're on the street, another for when you're in the bar, another for when you're in the sauna?
  • How many standards of integrity can you keep juggling and for how long?
  • Are you making a series of promises you know you’re never going to keep?
  • Are you a serial liar across the board?
  • How open are you to gay friendship?  Seriously, just how open are you if your history has been one of casual, NSA encounters...?
  • Why would anyone want to be a gay friend of yours?
  • Can you give a genuine compliment and receive one?
  • Do you have the courage to set standards in a Gay Friendship?
  • If the friendship didn’t match those standards would you have the guts to end it elegantly? Or just hope the other guy just kinda fades away?

7.    Legacy
  • After a casual sexual encounter with another gay man, what impression do you leave with him?
  • If a Significant Relationship ends today, how would you be remembered?
  • Why would any gay man want to remember you?
  • Are you more concerned with your reputation as a fag or with your real character?
  • Can you inspire another gay man through your lifestyle, words, actions, thoughts and writing?
  • Can you honestly be a Living, Breathing, Work-In-Progress, Trailblazer....? or just another fuckin' gay statistic....?
  • Do you have the guts to leave the Faggot Tribe because you formulated a better way that works just for you....?  
  • Can you handle the venom that outraged fags will spit at you once they've realized that Mentally, Emotionally - and probably Physically - you left "the community"...?
  • Do you have the courage to live as a Truly Unique Gay Man on your terms?
  • What's your legacy to the world....? 

(4)  The Decision To Act

7.  FuelMix realized what he needed to do with this twink - and went ahead and did it. The conversations are there for the world to read.  Is FuelMix right....?? Who knows.  All that FuelMix can say for sure is that he didn't act like a generic fag.

8.  The twink hasn't done FuelMix any harm. If anything, the twink was a source of innocent and genuine laughter......what's not to like....?

9.  It was never about disconnecting or getting rid of the twink.  It was about getting the twink to emerge from blind infatuation and to consider the possibility of parameters as an alternative to "automatic boyfriend, sex included".


(5)  What The Twink Now Knows

10.  At this point in time, the twink has accepted that he can't be FuelMix's boyfriend.  But he likes Option 4 of the 6 options that FuelMix gave him.  Clearly there is a connection between FuelMix and the twink.  He continues to tell FuelMix he loves him - but it's delivered with a freshness, without the previous air of needy desperation. He's beginning to see the difference between " Infatuation Boyfriend"  and "ManBestFriend" - and that it is possible to love both, intensely if he wants to.  There's a nascent clarity coming from the twink, his little gaydar of enlightenment is flickering into life. It'll take a few years before he gets it right - and on the way he'll get his heart broken by generic fags.

11.  Will he come crying to FuelMix every time....?  Probably the first two times then FuelMix will draw the line.


(6)  What's In It For FuelMix....?

12.  In the meantime, what does FuelMix get out of this deal....?
  • He has a twink that loves him and says so;
  • He has a twink that wishes him "good night" and says he's kissing the pillow thinking of FuelMix;
  • He has a twink that's in college;
  • He has a twink who's already told him the best days to meet up;
  • He has a twink who was told very early on, that he had to pay his own way if he wanted to socialize with FuelMix, 'coz FuelMix ain't gonna be anybody's ATM;
  • He has a twink who realizes that in paying his own way (yes, we go to "twink-affordable" restaurants), he keeps his independence and his self-respect;
  • He gets intimacy without neediness;
  • He's given the twink the complete freedom to decide each time if he wants to get a meal and just chat, go for a walk, check out the city, chill in a cafe, cuddle or have full-on sex, with no pressure from FuelMix;
  • He has the option of going to the sauna by himself and playing with whoever he wants. Or going with the twink and just playing with the twink. (The twink has the same option);
  • He gets a BoyBestFriend;
  • Neither party is compromised in finding a Significant Other.  At that point, any and all sexual intimacy between FuelMix and the twink stops.
13.  That's a hell of a better deal than FuelMix would have got, had he acted like a generic fag and just given the twink the brush-off.  Is it perfect...?  No, nothing ever is - but it's a good example of Resolution rather than resigned Compromise.  And a lot better than potentially simmering resentment, anger, recrimination and betrayal following an abrupt termination via WhatsApp.

14.  For the record, FuelMix is no fuckin' saint and has no desire to be one.

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Gay Man's Code of Honour 2

Sent in by a reader yesterday:

Wow! I liked -REALLY liked- the Gay Man's Code of Honour. They are perfect questions to ask of a potential partner. They are also a needed method of taking inventory of ourselves, not with the intent of trying to find the right answers, but to seriously look into ourselves and see what demons dwell within............


FuelMix says:

Yeah......there are no right answers.....is it to see "what demons dwell within...?"  That's probably putting it a bit strong.  There are a ton of reasons why we published it.  If we were asked to summarize it in one sentence we'd say this:  Since Faggotry doesn't like a gay man to feel, think and act for himself, we thought we'd encourage him to do so. 

Thanks for the feedback. 

Originally published 6 February 2014
Republished 1 September 2014

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Gay Man's Code Of Honour

A reader wrote in asking FuelMix what he meant by a fag Code Of Honour, mentioned in an earlier post entitled, Memo To Fags 10.


Wha...???!!

A Code of Honour articulates certain values and principles that clearly define behaviour.  Like a Mission Statement in the corporate world, a  personal Code of Honour forms the basis of how a person acts in certain situations. Formulating a Code of Honour is essentially an exercise in Self-Controntation. Getting there is neither pleasant, quick nor easy. In fact, it's fuckin' painful.

Considering that most fags only confront themselves in the mirror for cosmetic improvements, the idea of improving themselves at fundamental levels may be more than they can handle without several stiff drinks.

To get to a Code of Honour, you'll have to ask yourself some questions. Here are the questions that FuelMix used in formulating his own Code Of Honour. Like we said, it ain't pleasant and it ain't easy.


1.   Physical

  1. What are your personal standards by which you care for, honour and maintain your body?
  2. Are you simply repeating what other fags do to their body or are you looking to formulate something that works for you?
  3. Are your physical habits suicidal like most other fags?
  4. Are you preparing your body for longevity?
  5. If you’re getting by on your looks, and living “the lifestyle” whatcha gonna do when your looks run out?
  6. If you think you’re a hipster, or preppy or a jock now, how are you going to describe yourself in 5 years? 10 years?
  7. If you walk into a room full of gay men, why should they look at you?
  8. Why would they want to approach you?  What's your vibe...?
  9. If you’re “not into guys over 30” or “not into guys over 35 or 40”, what are you going to say when you reach 30, 35 or 40?  Apologize for yourself.....? 
  10. Will you then turn into a predator for twinks and perpetuate yet another gay stereotype?
  11. When you're over 30, 35, 40 or 50, will you get sex as an act of charity or because you're still smouldering and you can have any guy you want?
  12. Is age something you dread or something you conquer and assimilate?
  13. If age brings wisdom, are you acting your age or just your shoe size....?
  14. Are you authentic for your age and comfort level......or are you just pretentious....?


2.   Mental
  1. Other than porn, exactly what do you feed your mind with and why...?


3.   Emotional Intelligence
  1. How much emotional intelligence do you have?
  2. Do you even know what it is...?
  3. Do you just replicate the emotional behaviour of other fags or do you question whether there is a better way that allows you to dump baggage rather than keep adding to it like other fags?
  4. Are you hooked on drama, gossip, pettiness and bitching 'coz every other fag you know is...? 
  5. Does your Emotional Intelligence define your persona..?  A built body and a crippled, wounded psyche...?
  6. Can you actually observe yourself in the middle of a hissy fit and honestly say, "Oh shit.....there I go again...."?
  7. If Emotional Intelligence drives behaviour, what corrections do you need to make...?


4.   How You Relate To Other Gay Men
  1. What are your standards of integrity when dealing with other fags?
  2. Do you have one standard of integrity online, another for when you're on the street, another for when you're in the bar, another for when you're in the sauna?
  3. How many standards of integrity can you keep juggling and for how long?
  4. Are you making a series of promises you know you’re never going to keep?
  5. Are you a serial liar across the board?
  6. How open are you to gay friendship?  Seriously, just how open are you if your history has been one of casual, NSA encounters...?
  7. Why would anyone want to be a gay friend of yours?
  8. Can you give a genuine compliment and receive one?
  9. Do you have the courage to set standards in a Gay Friendship?
  10. If the friendship didn’t match those standards would you have the guts to end it elegantly? Or just hope the other guy just kinda fades away?


5.   Your Significant Relationship
  1. What standards  are you setting with your Significant Other before you enter a relationship?
  2. Is it Don’t Ask Don’t Tell?
  3. If you can't discuss Monogamy, what else can't you discuss?
  4. How do you talk about money?
  5. How do you talk about disease....?
  6. What standards do you have individually and jointly during the relationship?
  7. Is the relationship transparent to both of you?
  8. Do you have a fundamental basis of honesty or deceit in your relationships?
  9. What are your standards when the relationship ends?
  10. How would you deal with betrayal and theft? 
  11. How will you deal with violence in the relationship?
  12. How will you deal with an addiction - his or yours - that is out of control...?  Will you have the guts to ask for help....?
  13. How will you treat yourself and the other person when it’s over?


6.   You And The Other Fags
  1. How do you handle criticism of yourself as a gay man, or of other gay men?
  2. Can you handle the word “fag”?
  3. Have you figured out for yourself the difference between a fag and a gay man?
  4. Do you simply defend the lifestyle because everyone else - including you - is doing it?
  5. Are you hung up on the Gay Political Correctness that blinds you to other ways of thinking, feeling and acting?
  6. How do you behave in the presence of a disabled or handicapped fag? 
  7. How do you behave with a fag you find sexually repulsive and embarrassing to be seen with, but who would like to get to know you...?
  8. Can you handle a diseased or dying fag? On a regular basis....?  As a caregiver or as a social friend.....?  Could you be trusted....?


7.    Legacy
  1. After a casual sexual encounter with another gay man, what impression do you leave with him?
  2. If a Significant Relationship ends today, how would you be remembered?
  3. Why would any gay man want to remember you?
  4. Are you more concerned with your reputation as a fag or with your real character?
  5. Can you inspire another gay man through your lifestyle, words, actions, thoughts and writing?
  6. Can you honestly be a Living, Breathing, Work-In-Progress, Trailblazer....? or just another fuckin' gay statistic....?
  7. Do you have the guts to leave the Faggot Tribe because you formulated a better way that works just for you....?  
  8. Can you handle the venom that outraged fags will spit at you once they've realized that Mentally, Emotionally - and probably Physically - you left "the community"...?
  9. Do you have the courage to live as a Truly Unique Gay Man on your terms?
  10. What's your legacy to the world....?
Originally published 24 March 2011
Amended and Republished 5 February 2014; 1 September 2014
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