It Was More Fun Underground

In his conversations with elderly gays, FuelMix was left with the strong impression that M2M action was more fun when it was illegal and much more dangerous. At first, FuelMix thought such sentiments were infused with nostalgia - the elderly gays were reminiscing about the "good ol' days". But the more FuelMix listened, the more he compared their observations to his own.

Slowly, FuelMix came to the conclusion the elderly gays might well be right. In those days, there wasn't much technology, except the phone or coded hand written or typed notes. There was less opportunity to manipulate a lie, or to contemplate a lie in advance, or to post a fake stats and pic, or to bail out without warning. There was no virtual world to pixelate or fabricate. No opportunity to leave a lame voicemail or a terse message via WhatsApp.

Instead, it was real time action or nothing. The locations were either well hidden, or operated discretely alongside straight establishments. Those who found them, found them by word of mouth and knew exactly where they were when they entered. They also knew the risk they were taking - the secret spies, having their names entered on the dreaded "Pink List", the undercover cops, the entrapment, the personal and professional wreckage.

On entering, there was nothing to hide. You were hunting for sex, period. No fancy labels like "bi-curious" or "straight but curious" or "mostly straight". There were unwritten codes like the notorious hanky code (whose history goes much further back into the 19th century) and codes of conduct. If you said you were going to show up, you showed up. You might be lying to society, but you didn't lie to another gay man who was assuming just as great a risk as you, by being there.

The sex was secretive, surreptitious, anonymous and intense. Personal truths confessed in the heat of the moment, were kept confidential to the grave. Sometimes lasting friendships were made that spanned distance and world wars. Threats of criminality, treason and blackmail were understood, negotiated and navigated. 

As those men aged, they became mentors to the next generation, advising and helping them with nearly all aspects of living as a young gay man under constant threat.

FuelMix was impressed by the elderly gays' passion and integrity. When gay became mainstream, legalized, glamourized, franchised, politicized, politically correct, polarizing, suppressive and intrusive, something very real yet ephemeral and indescribable, was lost. 

What crawled out of the woodwork was the inferior, urban, generic fag. Tupperware compared to the Wedgwood before it. Bred on left-wing fag propaganda, trained to become "outraged" on command, the daily pursuit of perfect pecs and abs, pay-as-you-go sex, circuit parties, Viagra, chems, cheap words and even cheaper ethics, they were on the long road -but fast track- to terminal superficiality.

 Originally published 15 June 2006. 
Amended and Republished 6 November 2011 | 31 March 2017

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White Noise

From a reader:: 

I'm hearing that white guys are not showing up at the saunas in HK the way they used to.  Even with so many gay saunas in town they feel they are not welcome at such places anymore.  I’ve been reading your gay sauna reviews.  Can you shed any light on this?

FuelMix says:

1.  That might be true.  

2.  Very Rich Megacity is no longer a British colony and whites don’t - and can't - strut around with their noses in the air.  Times have changed.  Compared to Asians, they aren’t that rich and more whites are finding that expatriate perks like housing are not being offered.  In other words, they get to feel the hit of inflation like everyone else and that puts a dent on disposable income.  

3.  Faced with the choice of drinks or dicks, white boy will take booze first every time.  Hordes of whites can be found at the fag bars on weekends in Very Rich Megacity.  More so than in the gay saunas.

4.  There’s also a clique of self-proclaimed “high net worth” white fags who hold “by invitation only” PnP orgies at their apartments in SoHo, Mid-Levels and South Side.  If you’re desperate to join that fraternity, show up really, really late on Fridays and Saturday nites at the fag bars in SoHo and Sheung Wan.  Sooner or later, you’ll get initiated.  If you want to increase your chances of an invitation, offer to share the cost of a champagne breakfast in SoHo after the bars close.  Dick, crystal meth and a defibrillator are just a VISA card (and taxi ride) away.

5.  With the unrestrained entry of Mainland Chinese into Very Rich Megacity, local GAMs are angry and resentful at the perceived loss of the city’s unique identity.  The growth of gay saunas, then followed by some spectacular crashes and closures of those saunas, has, paradoxically, been met with an unspoken – but widely understood - backlash by local GAMs against those viewed as “not belonging”.  It’s a Turf And Towel War.  Whites happen to be one of the statistics as are tourists, foreign residents of VRM and Bananas.  (That’s why many Bananas try so hard to be white when they’re at the fag bars).  It's also why certain saunas appear to have a distinctly unfriendly vibe to whites.  Putting it another way, whites have chickened out. 

6.  Professional expatriate white fags in Very Rich Megacity also have an image problem.  Whether or not they’ve admitted to themselves that they’re gay, or whether or not they’re comfortably Out in their own country, when they’re here in VRM, they’re not sure of how far they can "Go Gay" without getting spotted for the wrong reasons.  It’s a small packed city.  The potential for the employer, co-workers, BF, wife or GF to find out exists. Word gets around real quick.  Better not to be seen at the saunas on Nude Nite - especially if alcohol is the preferred option (see Paragraph 3 above).

7.  There are whites claiming to be "str8 but curious”, “bi-curious”, “like cock now and then”, “will play when the GF is not around”, “gay for PLAY when it happens”.  These whites are frequently found in the government-run Swimming Pools or, the Locker Rooms and Showers of commercial Gyms in VRM with a known heavy gay clientele.  They pretend that they’re getting aroused without meaning to. It’s a con.  Everyone knows why they’re there.  They’re looking for cock.  They’ll happily suck and be sucked in the showers or the steam rooms.  And they’ll be back for more.

8.  As at March 2017, Central Escalator Sauna continues to be the default sanctuary for whites seeking asylum from the perceived hostility of other saunas, as well as bemused western tourists who can't believe how small the place is. Some whites may show up at Hutong and occasionally, Big Top or Action.  But you won't find them in My Way which is the place for hot GAMs, Asian tourists (we are aware that word about My Way is spreading in the Philippines, Thailand, Malaysia and Singapore) and resident foreigners.

9.  There is no shortage of visiting whites advertising on Craigslist offering hookups in their hotel rooms. We have no idea how successful those ads are, but multiple ads over a few days (with their stated age changing faster than you can blink) appear to be the norm.  Occasionally, some white will bleat that he's looking for company to try a gay sauna.  Again, no idea whether that request pans out.  But since it's Craigslist.....**sigh**

10.  Despite what we've said above, there will always be a die-hard contingent of potato queens. who have yet to raise their standards.

Originally published 28 August 2011
Amended and Republished 29 March 2017

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Hit Me

Munching on sandwiches in the park and musing about being a legend in his own lunchtime, FuelMix’s digestive reverie was interrupted by a looming shadow…..

Raising his eyes, FuelMix recognized an impeccably dressed Middle Aged English Fag who had in the past, attempted to cruise FuelMix in the sauna only to be given the brush-off.

“Hello!” exclaimed the Middle Aged English Fag brightly, “I believe we met before at ******?” His ruddy complexion and ludicrously yellow British teeth were strangely compatible with the autumn foliage, even in a tropical place like Very Rich Megacity.

“HHMMfff….” gulped FuelMix attempting to be polite while navigating a pate and tomato sandwich that was stuck to the roof of his mouth.

“Oh…..is this a bad time…?” enquired the Middle Aged English Fag crisply.

“HHHMMffff….” responded FuelMix pointing to his mouth, his lower jaw moving furiously like a chewing camel in an attempt to re-gain his luncheon etiquette.

“Ah…you’ve got your tongue around something”, sneered MAEF, “funny, all this time I heard you were a Top and preferred to be serviced…”

FuelMix swallowed (the sandwich), looked directly at MAEF and asked, “from whom?”

MAEF: Oh, you know, word gets around…you were pointed out in the sauna….I’d already noticed you, but you weren’t interested at the time.

FM: I can’t control sauna gossip.

MAEF: Are you into corporal punishment? Not to be direct, I think you’re quite fascinating. I like being beaten and I know you’re a Top.

FM: What do you have in mind?

MAEF: Well as you can probably tell, I’m a product of the English Public School. I was beaten mercilessly as a teenager by the staff and by the other boys. After a while it became quite erotic for me, especially when the rich foreign boys with those exotic features used to have a go at me – just because they could.

FM: So that’s your kink is it?

MAEF: Oh yes….I’m heavily into being beaten. Long sessions you know, till I’m whimpering. Safe and consensual of course. You’re foreign and you obviously have a brain and a fabulous body. You’d be perfect to put me in my place. Care to consider it? I have all the stuff. You just need to show up at my place. I spent scads of cash soundproofing one of my rooms on the pretence that I was installing a high-end audiophile system.

FM: (wiping the sandwich crumbs off his fingers): I’ll think about it

MAEF: Oh good! I was so hoping you would. By the way are you married?

FM: Are you?

MAEF: I was. Got 2 kids who aren’t thrilled that Daddy’s a queer. Of course, they haven’t a clue what I’m into.

FM: I see.

MAEF: Well, look, here’s my card, obviously not my business card, just a personal one. I give it out to likely Tops. Perhaps you’ll call?....

FM: I’ll certainly think about it.

MAEF: Ta-Ta for now handsome! (walks briskly away)

Originally published 16 November 2008
Republished 28 March 2017

One Language, Two Meanings

It was an early autumn evening as FuelMix, heading for the subway station, navigated a notoriously cruisy section of a park in downtown Very Rich Megacity.

Out of nowhere, a skinny, fugly GAM appeared grinning in that inscrutable oriental fashion. The grin was one part greeting, and one part grimace. FuelMix kept walking and waited for the opening line:

“I see you before”, said GAM pointing to FuelMix. “You have very nice body. You go gym?”

“Yeah”, said FuelMix.

‘You finish gym now?” asked GAM

“Yeah”, said FuelMix.

“You like boys?” asked GAM

“Depends…” said FuelMix. “What you like?”

“I like muscle boy like you” grinned GAM

“What else you like?” enquired FuelMix

“I like park, no inside sex” chirped the GAM

“We are in a park now” said FuelMix, “so you must be happy then”

“Yes!” beamed the GAM “I wanna suck your cock,..….OK?”

“You like to be fucked also?” asked FuelMix

“No!” said the GAM abruptly, pointing to his asshole with his index finger. “I told you..…no inside sex..!” He stormed off.

“Oh..…” muttered FuelMix, fazed but slightly wiser, “so that’s what you meant”.

Originally published 10 October 2008
Amended and Republished 24 November 2013 | 28 March 2017

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Principles of Faggotry 82

A Screaming Fag is perfectly capable of dishing out the Silent Treatment.

Originally published 17 August 2015
Republished 27 March 2017

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The Vow

Brad aged 31 and Caroline aged 27, are at their wedding. They prepared their own wedding “vows”. Here’s Brad’s.

Caroline….here we are standing in front of our friends and families, whom we’ve just scammed for bridal registry gifts all over town. We’ve collected a lot of stash and swag, but given the skeletons in my closet, I suspect we’ll have some storage problems when we move into that designer apartment your Dad gave us.

I don’t really want to marry you, because I think cock is more interesting particularly when attached to a hot guy. Thing is, having you as my wife deletes the awkward questions, gives me a guaranteed date to corporate functions, allows me to wear a wedding band and fit in with the other guys in the office and best of all, to put a framed picture of you on my desk – instead of the one with Miss Piggy in pearls.

You’d better not look at my mobile or my laptop. I’ve put user codes on them. Both have gay porn downloads, chat room generated explicit e-mails of men I wanted to meet and some of whom I did. There are tons of numbers from fone sex contacts, details of my tricks in the gay saunas, complete online gay guides to the cities I visited on my business trips, plus all my currently valid ads on Craigslist that I amend from time to time.

I’ve also uploaded videos of me in your underwear, jacking with a Fleshlight, doing bukkake, fuckin’ a watermelon and trying out dildos.

I’m out of control financially. I drink after work with the guys then drift into a gay bar. On weekends, I won’t be around. I’ll be at the 24 hour gay saunas getting gangbanged on meth amphetamine, Viagra and Trance Music. If you wanna know where the mood swings came from, now you know.

I’ve also been blackmailed and ripped of by male hustlers a couple of times and I’m paying them every month. The guys at the office are getting suspicious and they talk behind my back – especially when I step out about 4pm every couple of days, hit the sauna and crawl back to the office about 6pm and pretend that I was with a client. Heck, even my secretary knows I’m a liar.

I’m never gonna explain those scrawled phone numbers on scraps of paper that end up in my shirt pocket and then in the washing machine. And there will be phone calls that I get that I just don’t want you to hear. I’ll be stepping out onto the balcony a lot.

I’m not gonna be faithful to you. I never was. If you wanna call me bisexual that’s cool, I’ll take it. But I’m the only one who knows the whole truth. Even in the dead of night when I’m holding you in my arms, it’s not you I inhale – it’s the scent of that hot dude I sucked in the public toilet after office hours mixed with unflushed shit and disinfectant.

I really dunno what kind of husband or father I’m gonna be. You’ll get the 2.5 kids coz I don’t have a problem fucking you. But stuff like Little League, piano lessons, growing pains and upbringing is your problem coz I’ll be stoned, out cruising, getting fucked, or a combination of all three.

Chances are we’ll end up divorced. I suggest you keep your job indefinitely. You’ll see through me and all of this gay shit at some point. Right now you’re only marrying me to stop the other 2 bitches from snaring me. I’m hot to look at now, but see me in 7 years and you’ll really be wondering what  you married and why.  The only thing I ask is that if my lifestyle kills me, just show up with the kids at my bedside. The guys I fucked around and partied with were all anonymous and most had false names.

So yeah……..I’ll take you to be my lawfully wedded wife……whatever the hell that means.

Originally published 24 March 2010
Republished 27 January 2014 | 27 March 2017

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Principles of Faggotry 81

1.  A fag in a sauna uses the lockers to store his boredom, loneliness and / or infidelity for a few hours.

2.  In exchange, he puts on an attitude, a towel and / or a condom.

Originally published 8 August 2015
Republished 24 March 2017

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Abercrombie And Fitch Dude 3

What the cute Asian guy who used to work there told FuelMix:

The massive Abercrombie and Fitch store in Central closed down earlier than anticipated.  Earlier newspaper reports said this would happen by the middle of 2017.

The staff bought a ton of clothes using their staff discounts.  But since most of them were college kids, they weren't being paid that much to begin with and most of their daily earnings went on buying lunch in Central.

According to the earlier newspaper reports, A&F would no longer keep a store in Hong Kong.  However, the cute Asian guy who used to work there, told FuelMix there is a rumour that A&F will open a new store in Harbour City, Tsim Sha Tsui.  They are thinking of competing with The Gap and Uniqlo which have a huge presence there.

Cute Asian guy also said that, like FuelMix, he prefers to buy his jeans from Hollister rather than A&F.  They're better quality.

Oh yeah said the cute Asian guy.....that Canal Road toilet, the one under the flyover, just recently renovated and located spitting distance from Action Sauna, is soooooo notorious, that even "str8" guys, some quite attractive and gym fit are showing up and questioning their sexuality.

For the record, FuelMix does not encourage any form of public indecency or illegal behaviour.  We are simply reporting what we have been told is now common knowledge amongst college guys and their grapevine.

Apparently, said the cute Asian guy, Action Sauna is the place were "str8 but very curious" guys, horned up by what they saw in Canal Road, show up to "mix and mingle".

We're not sure about that one, since it's been a while since FuelMix showed up at Action.  What the college guy said might be a recent phenomenon.  

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Principles of Faggotry 80

Question:  Why is it impossible for a fag meth addict to lie through his teeth...??

Answer:  Because he's lost them all.

Originally published 10 November 2014
Republished 20 March 2017

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Principles of Faggotry 79

When the dude you're having sex with has an explosive orgasm, smiles and tells you that was really great......don't assume he was thinking of you when he came.

Originally published 28 August 2014
Republished 7 November 2014 | 18 March 2017

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From A Reader In Love

Sent in by a reader who gave FuelMix permission to publish what he's going through, now that he found someone significant.  We've split up the email to insert our comments. 

Underlining, highlighting  and bold print by FuelMix:

Hey FuelMix 

>>>One thing I've discovered in the past few months since ****** and I have been together, is the amount of people that never seemed into me before are now interested in hooking up or more.... OR, the big thing, the amount of fellow gays that assume or think I should just cheat on him. As though that must be happening anyway and then are in shock when I tell them "hell no!" LOL<<<

FuelMix says:  In Principles of Faggotry 34 we said:

A fag will snort a gram of coke.  But he'll choke on a grain of truth.

>>&&gt;In once recent instance I was going for a walk the other day and ran into a gay friend who casually asked where I was going and when I told him which way I was heading he told me it's a big gay cruising area so I must be on my way to try and hook up. I told him I have a boyfriend and he's like....so you still should.  !!!

Or I got invited to a big gay naked party last weekend which will just be a big orgy and when I told the friend I wasn't going to go as ***** and I are committed to each other, he was stunned and said "well you should still go cause you can at least have a drink and watch". Um no, ain't going to happen.

Must be my old reputation with the baths or something, although I don't recall cheating on anyone, just fucking around. Or just the way things are now with the gays, we're very happy with each other though so cheating is not going to happen. Besides being a total romantic and sweetheart, ***** is also so fucking hot so why bother fucking that up. LOL<<<

FuelMix says:

1.  Well, there it is.....Faggotry in all its duplicitous glory.  There is no shortage of fags who pine for a BF, fantasize that it might be monogamous, but when they get one, they treat him and the relationship like shit, fuck their brains out all over town whilst assuming that the BF is or should be, doing the same.

2.  That modus operandi is all they know. They've cheated and been cheated on so many times, that the idea of actual monogamy is abhorrent to them.  What they themselves can't have is what they insist you shouldn't have.

3.  They then justify it by saying they prefer an "open relationship".   Yeah, right.  What's usually open is their mouth and their ass.

>>>I knew you would understand. Your words mean a lot to me when it seems like every other gay we come across gets drunk and hits on us for a threesome or questions why we are together, etc.

And oddly, I have actually lost some friends out of it. They think he is a great guy but I guess because I am not giving them 100% attention they are pissed. I was sad about losing the few friends at first but actually think it's for the best now as their true colors have shown.<<&lt;

FuelMix says:  Yeah....their true "rainbow" colours.....

>>>I always assumed when a person gets in a relationship their friends are happy for them. I guess not. This is the first time I saw people upset and even go as far as to try and background check him etc to 'protect me'......He's his own self-accomplished man and we love how we each have a drive for the things that interest us. Overall I think people just got used to me being single and this throws them off.

We learned early, don't promote what we've got, it pisses everyone off. You told me that too.<<<

FuelMix says:  In Principles of Faggotry 65 we said:

Many ghetto fags who claim they consciously came out of the closet, are unconsciously living in an emotionally gated community.  Look closely and it's clear that Pride and Loathing are always found together in the gay ghetto.

>>>We keep so much private now  and I actually like it that way as then I don't hear asshole comments because if they don't know what is going on, they can't judge. Plus it's not their business anyway.<<<

FuelMix says:  In Principles of Faggotry 75 we said:

A fag has no clue what's going on in his life, but always has the definitive answers for what's going on in another fag's life.

>>>I have noticed from those that are professionals who also do Cross Fit obsessively to be the ones that are really miffed. I mean...they are going by the book, big job and Cross Fit...why don't they have a boyfriend??!!.....LOL Oh but wait!.... They still have Grindr. I actually know guys who will not go out with friends on a Saturday night because they might have the chance to hook up through Grindr. So they sit at home on an app. Sad.<<<

FuelMix says:  BBBWWWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....!!!

>>>You know, when I first met ****** I thought it was going to be a one off, it's what I had come to expect. But something clicked with us and we were sick of the same old scene that seems to do no one any good. We have lots in common yet still learn from each other. He's beautiful but what I love about him is his heart, he really cares for me and treats those around him very well. I watched how he treats people a lot at first. He gives me new perspectives on life, we talk about everything, we have each others backs and love planning our future together. No one has ever been so good to me.......<<<

FuelMix says:  In Principles of Faggotry 72 we said:

1.  A fag knows how to drain his balls.
2.  But he hasn't a clue how to fill his heart.

>>>We just feel like a real little team. He has broken down so many walls I had up and has calmed me in many ways yet also lets me be me and I wouldn't try and change one thing about him.

Even if down the road this doesn't work out, I would be sad but not so heartbroken as I know I have a best friend for life.

I'm very happy in so many ways, life has it's bumps that I expect but I feel so good about so many things. I still watch out for myself first but it is nice to know people have your back.

Feel free to write whatever you need. I'm cool with it.<<<

FuelMix says:  



1.  If you believe that you found a Quality Man, then treasure him.  We maintain there is nothing sexier than Monogamy where both partners empower themselves first - and then empower the relationship.  It won't be easy and it isn't meant to be.

2.  True Pride doesn't gyrate in a G-string on a passing float.  It vibrates in the heart and shakes everybody it touches.

3. Thanks for writing in.

Originally published 1 November 2015
Amended and Republished 15 March 2017

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Shot Through The Heart

1.  How To Make A Gay Guy Squirm
2.  Failure To Set Parameters Of A Relationship
3.  Faggotry's Basis: Hedonism And Easy Availability
4. Gay Hedonism vs LTR
5.  Our Suspicion
6.  The Unanswered Questions
7. The "Gay Nazi" Relationship Paradox


1.  How To Make A Gay Guy Squirm

1.  If there's one thing guaranteed to make the generic urban fag squirm is his reaction to the question:

"So.....you have a BF.....are you monogamous and committed or is there a deal about sleeping around..?"

2.  Their answers:

• "OMG...let's not go there..."
• "We haven't talked about it.."
• "We won't talk about it.."
• "I don't dare bring it up.."
• "If I raise that, we're gonna break up for sure..!"
• "I really don't and won't wanna know.."
• "There's a big age difference between us, so I'm sure he's fuckin' around.."
• "I don't know what he sees in me, so I'm guessing he's fuckin' around.."
• **sheepish grin**  "We're sorta emotionally committed.  If you were to ask me where he was right now, I wouldn't know.."
• "I never trusted him and I don't trust myself.  So that's where we're at"
• "I have needs and I guess he does too"
• "We've been together - in one form or another - off and on - for [  ] years.  Why risk embarrassing questions..?"
• "God, I've been hurt so many times I really don't care anymore. If I have someone in my bed for a while that's cool.  Even when I'm holding him, I don't trust him".

Fascinated readers will already know that FuelMix supports monogamy.  See the stuff he's previously written under the label,  Monogamy .  But that's NOT the point of this post.


2.  Failure To Set Parameters of a Relationship

1.  This post enquires why there is such widespread failure to set the parameters of a "relationship" - if there is one.


3.  Faggotry's Basis : Hedonism And Easy Availability

1.  Start with the basic premise that Faggotry is based on outright hedonism and the easy availability of hot guys.  Nothing wrong with that and we've all done it.  It's fun and it's a rite of passage.  Done in moderation by a fag who's genuinely single and unattached, recreational and anonymous sex can be healthy.  But some fags never outgrow it and it becomes a chronic lifestyle "choice".  Check out what their faces and bodies look like after a few decades of gay saunas, chems, after-parties, gay travel and circuit parties.

2.  (Hint:  ever wondered why these pretty fags in Fagland photographed in Clubs with big grins and their arms around each other, look SO sleep deprived??  And fuck....some are still in their 20s).


 4.  Gay Hedonism vs LTR

1.  Fundamentally Gay Hedonism is incompatible with a Long Term Relationship.  Think about it.  Hot guy comes into club or gay sauna.  He's the object of attention and competition. Fags are turning ruthless, the chase is on, the cruising is hot and heavy, the conversations limited to "what you into?" or thick compliments with the intention of snagging the guy for a couple of hours.  Time is of the essence, it's now or never.  That's why the reality of Fagland is that a fag's definition of a good friend is someone he's known for 2 hours.  Most of the phone numbers on his phone's contact list are one-time 2-hour tricks.  They ain't never gonna call and if they do, it'll be real superficial.  Forget about articulating and sharing values, forget about priorities, hell forget about names - most of the names fags give out are false anyways.

2.  Fagland doesn't prepare a fag for anything other than next weekend.  Just how many Faglands are there that actively teach Relationship Building?  And yet there's no shortage of fags screaming for Gay Marriage  HAHAHAHAHAHA....!!!

3.  The only counselling that exists in Fagland are Telephone Helplines to help the angst-ridden closeted fag come out, or peer-to-peer drug counseling, HIV-counseling, suicide-counseling and grief counseling.  In other words, the counseling is entirely Casualty Based.


5.  Our Suspicion

1.  FuelMix has long suspected that vast swathes of fags screaming for Gay Marriage were political poseurs.  Most fags don't have a clue about relationship-building, they probably fled their dysfunctional birth families, the societal norms of Fagland are implicitly (perhaps even unwittingly) set against it, large chunks of gay media deliberately say nothing about relationship-building (although there's no shortage of ads from fag lawyers offering advice on how to import a same-sex marriage partner).  There's a palpable sense of disconnect which explains why so many fags have so many superficial friends and yet, are desparately lonely.


6.  The Unanswered Questions

1.  It's not surprising that when a fag does find himself in a "relationship", then by default nothing is said about what truly matters.  Namely, the answers to the questions:

• "Why do you want me?"
• "Do you really love me or are you as pathetically lonely as I am?"
• "Do you love me enough to be faithful from here on out?"
• "For as long as we're together, can I trust you on the small things and the big things?"
• "Do you trust me?"
• "What do you mean by an Open Relationship?"
• "Are you going to tell me who you've slept with?"
• "What if I'm not happy about all the guys you're sleeping with?"
• "Why can't we talk about it?"
• "How will we redefine this relationship if I'm not happy with your amount of sleeping around?"
• "Why are we in this relationship to begin with?"
• "What do you mean when you say that you can sleep around and be emotionally faithful?"
• "So if we're out together and run into a hot guy and you wanna fuck him, am I just supposed to agree?"
• "Where do my feelings come into this?"

7.  The "Gay Nazi Relationship" Paradox

1.  If fags claim to be Out to the world at large, then how come they are so repressed and closeted in their own "relationships"? Where is the Pride in that..?

2.  So many ultra-politically correct, screaming fag Nazis are the very ones who are Deaf, Dumb & Blind in their own bedrooms.  They torture themselves and their "significant" other guy in fluffy-pillowed, stuffed toy  Concentration Camps of their own creation.  Complicit in each other's agony and uncertainty, they act as the dubious role models for the next set of chronically lonely fags who assume that is the only choice.  It's futile to resist.  There will only be evasion, silence, betrayal and departure.  A little part of them will die inside.

3.  No wonder they squirm.  Each of these so-called couples is a war criminal.

4.  So.......the title of this post becomes clear.  As the boys from BonJovi wailed:

"Shot through the heart
And you're to blame
You give Luuv a bad name......."

Originally published 13 December 2010
Amended and Republished 10 September 2013 | 15 March 2017

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Principles of Faggotry 78

Fags crowing about the collective power of the Pink Dollar are often individually ignorant of their behavioural, emotional and spiritual bankruptcy.

Originally published 27 August 2014
Republished 7 November 2014 | 15 March 2017

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Idol Worship

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In Defence Of Monogamy 3

The other day, FuelMix dropped into the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation). Ordering a drink and finding a comfy perch, FuelMix scanned the joint, looking for blog material.

A tame fag, with whom FuelMix was peripherally acquainted, made eye contact. When beckoned, he came trotting over, wagging his tail. After the usual pleasantries (during which FuelMix's crotch was repeatedly fondled), the fag sat next to FuelMix, looking jittery and agitated.

FM: Something on your mind?

Fag: Yeah, can’t figure out my BF

FM: Didn’t know you had one

Fag: I don’t know if I have one.......he’s forever sleeping around and bragging about it. Makes me uncomfortable

FM: How long you been together?

Fag: A few years

FM: What’s the deal on sleeping around?

Fag: Dunno………..we can’t discuss it. We just end up fighting, he storms out, fucks around, comes home later, starts bragging about it.

FM: You sleep around?

Fag: Kinda – but not as much as him. Thing is, I can’t trust him anymore. When we’re having sex, I can’t trust him. Emotionally, I can’t trust him. Sometimes I’m scared for my health. But we can’t even talk about it without him storming out and fucking somebody else.

FM: You’ve put up with this for a few years?

Fag:Yeah, it’s getting kinda tiring

FM: What’s in it for you?

Fag: Well….I guess I can say I have a BF. Not much else

FM: You scared to confront him?

Fag: Yeah, he’s younger than me and drinks heavily, especially after one of his revenge fucks

FM: So….there’s infidelity, an inability to talk about it……..and the threat of physical abuse?

Fag: I think so……….I wanna end it but don’t know how. I think I would have preferred monogamy but we can’t even discuss it. I don’t think I’m in love anymore. I just don’t know where I stand with him. He’s happy with things as they are, I’m miserable. I’m beginning to hate myself.

FuelMix finished his drink and left.

Originally published 16 June 2009
Republished 16 October 2014 | 14 March 2017

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In Defence Of Monogamy 2

One of the depressing things when engaging the generic urban fag in conversation, is the cynical flippancy with which they treat their (apparently) significant relationships. 

This flippancy cuts right across educational, class, financial and professional boundaries. Time and time again, the Significant Other is described in a way that suggests he is an acquisition, liable to depreciate in value and open to disposal or trade-in. 

Worse, the relationship comes across as a lingering series of half-truth milestones, assumed or actual deceit, an awkward convention of mutual censorship of “don’t ask don’t tell” or a one-way street of cheque writing. 

There seems to be no attempt by fags to change the way things are. This kind of crippled “relationship” frequently confers bragging rights and the acceptance of other fags – many of whom are in exactly the same position. For some bizarre reason, the fag in the “relationship” is thought of as “stable” and “responsible”. 

FuelMix finds it insane. A relationship is a sacred contract. The term “sacred” has nothing to do with religious dogma. It has everything to do with how much and how seriously 2 men are prepared to invest of themselves physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. 

A relationship is a commitment. And FuelMix has said several times in this blog that fags are shit scared of commitment because the fag lifestyle is one of shallow hedonism. The longer the party lasts and the later is gets, the better everyone looks. 

Torn between a lifestyle of (repetitive, unhealthy) carnal and chemical distractions and gnawing chronic loneliness, the fag compromises at every step. The reasoning goes like this: 

“Yeah, I’m horny so I’ll go to the sauna, fuck my brains out, smoke some crack and weed, do some poppers and maybe I might find someone significant there too. It doesn’t have to be monogamous coz we both met in the sauna right...? We could date and he could move in, or maybe not, but it has to be like………totally open……. coz I’m not ready to commit……but it would be nice to have someone to go to Jerry’s place with on Saturday…..and I’m thinking of going to Bangkok or Puerto Vallarta and I don’t know anybody there……..maybe if he has some money he could pay for both of us……..so we’ll just say that we’re good friends, but kinda “committed”…OMG!! What the fuck does that mean?............ 

Exactly. 

What the fuck does it mean? Nothing actually. There’s no contract, there are no parameters, there’s no investment. But when the fag shows up – alone – at the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation), he’ll bad mouth the other guy for as long as the drinks keep coming. And all the other idiots will nod and consider him “stable” and “responsible”.

Originally published 14 July 2008

Republished 31 December 2013 | 16 October 2014 | 14 March 2017

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In Defence Of Monogamy 1

FuelMix was chatting to a well educated, well travelled fag who enquired whether FuelMix had ever had a Significant Other. FuelMix replied (truthfully) that he had had only one, which lasted just over 2 years. Even though FuelMix and his SO were several hundred miles apart (but in the same time zone) and physically saw each other once a month, they kept in contact several times a day. The relationship was monogamous by prior agreement. It broke up for reasons not connected with fidelity, but as a result of each party's professional ambitions -and FuelMix's desire to return to Asia - that would have massively increased the physical distance and time zones between them.

Fag was incredulous and leery. He was visibly disgusted that FuelMix would even mention the obscenity of monogamy. 

“That’s just too restrictive...!!”, fag declared “no man in his right mind would buy into that deal...!! Who wants to be monogamous..? It’s just too much trouble and besides, he probably lied to you the whole time...!!”. 

FuelMix took a long hard look at the fag, realizing that in his short sentence, fag had gone from being mildly attractive to downright repugnant. There’s a lot that FuelMix can say in defence of monogamy which will in due course, unfold in this blog. 

Looking at the fag, trapped in his own paradigm of distrust, FuelMix was reminded of the following:

• There are some fights you get into coz you know you’re gonna win;

• There are some fights you don’t get into coz you know you’re gonna lose;

• There are some fights that are just not worth getting into;

FuelMix shrugged and excused himself.

Originally published 30 November 2007

Amended and Republished 12 December 2013 |  16 October 2014 | 14 March 2017

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When Fem Isn't Halal

“The Malaysian authorities are at the centre of an increasingly heated row after it emerged that 66 Muslim boys identified by teachers as "effeminate" had been dispatched to a special camp to discourage them from becoming gay.” 

-----Outrage as Malaysia sends "effeminate" boys to anti-gay camp, The Independent, 20 April 2011

Lamestream Media  picked up on the story. There was the usual wailing and gnashing of teeth. The policy was deemed to breach international conventions, that it degraded boys who may be “different”, it traumatized and stigmatized them.  All true – especially since homosexuality is technically illegal in Malaysia. But that hasn’t stopped gay bars and gay saunas, especially in the capital, Kuala Lumpur.  Some Hong Kong residents swear the gay saunas in KL are pretty good fun.  The reality is that the laws against gay sex in Malaysia are selectively enforced - and usually against politicians deemed to be an annoyance.

As usual, Lamestream Media missed the point.  It’s easy to finger one religion and allege bigotry.  But what’s being done in Trengganu is not that different to Christians claiming to “cure” homosexual tendencies.

Furthermore, the 4 day programme could be described as exploratory, preventative and diagnostic.  That’s no different to Drug, Alcoholism, Sexual Addiction and Shoplifting sessions intended to sniff out those with such tendencies.

So does FuelMix think sending Fem Abdul from Malaysia to boot camp in order to "de- gay" him,  is a good idea?  No, it’s a stupid idea and here’s why:

1.  The boys weren’t consulted or counseled.  They were “vetted” beforehand pursuant to murky criteria and then shipped off.  How parental consent was obtained or coerced isn’t clear either.  One justification given was that parents wanted daughters and were dressing their sons up as girls.  Duh…..shouldn’t the parents then be sent off to camp?

2.  If it works right, then it should kill off Fem Abdul’s dream to get into gay twink porn.

3.  If it doesn't work right - and it probably won't, it will spawn 4 new blackmail industries:

• Teachers threatening to send Fem Abdul to THAT place;
• Parents threatening to send Fem Abdul to THAT place;
• Vicious social media gossip and insinuation that Fem Abdul should be sent to THAT place;
• School playground bullying and intimidation that Fem Abdul could be sent to THAT place;

4.  At an early age, Fem Abdul will over-compensate for his deemed lack of masculinity. Expect ultra-macho, rage, either from frustration or steroids. Fem Abdul will try and team up with the school bullies and pick on his own kind. In other words, Fem Abdul will go from one campy behaviour to another campy behaviour – all courtesy of a camp.  HAHAHAHAHAHAHA…….!!

5.  When he grows up, Fem Abdul will become a closet, satay-flavoured Butch Queen with internalized  homophobia.

6.  Pressured into marrying, Fem Abdul will look for the most docile bird he can find.  It’s the only way he can look and act “masculine”.  To prove his point that he’s a real man and in charge, he’ll probably beat his wife regularly.  He’ll fail as a Man, he’ll fail in his marriage and he’ll fail as a parent.

7.  Fem Abdul will make regular and unexplained trips to Bangkok, Singapore and Hong Kong to fuck his brains out at the gay sauna.  After all, he can be expected to read FuelMix’s Gay Sauna reviews, right..??

8.  The flaw in this 4 day program is not just who defines “effeminacy”, but where do you draw the line? Is effeminacy deemed to irreversibly stop at a certain age somewhere in late puberty? What about “refresher” masculinity courses in their 20s and 30s?

9.  If effeminacy is defined as distinct behavioural traits, then why not stigmatize  those careers that are a direct result of such traits? For example, Fem Abdul liked to sing and dance as a child.  Should he be banned from applying to a music or dance academy?  Should those academies be accused of perpetuating effeminacy?  What about artists, fashion designers, interior designers, flight attendants, retail staff, hair stylists, advertising execs? Could a national airline be accused of encouraging effeminacy?  

10.  What does one do when “effeminacy” shows up in “ alpha masculine” jobs..? For example, gay professional athletes, soldiers and investment bankers (the latter according to FuelMix's observations, usually bisexual, cocaine-addicted, riddled with bravado and insecurities, but let’s not complicate Finance more than it already is).

11.  Theoretically, a drive for “officially approved masculinity” could crash whole sectors of a local economy.

12.  And what about fags around the world? They’re just as complicit notwithstanding their superficial objections to the Malaysian policy.  Every fag and his teddy bear will do their fucked-up best to declare that they’re “str8 looking and str8 acting”.  But FuelMix bets very few were actually born looking that way.  Chances are that most were wispy, somewhat fem, socially awkward types who knew deep inside they were carrying a secret.  It wasn’t until much later that a morphing process took place at many levels.  Part of that process was the revulsion against the very characteristics that they themselves exhibited.

13.  Yet, how many ads out there “Proudly” proclaim that the fag is “masculine” or “non-fem” or “jock” and looking for the same?  That “preference” is essentially no different to those Jews who conspired with the Nazis to send their own kind to the concentration camps first and then bitched that they were being persecuted when Hitler told them to board the trains too.

Originally pubished 22 April 2011
Amended and Republished 14 March 2017

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Phallic Ridicule

1.  The "Feminized" Male
2.  Penis Size And The Fag
3.  The Blood of My Children
4.  The Age of What....???!!!


1.  The "Feminized" Male

1.  Scientists were screaming from 2008 that as as result of common chemicals, males in every class of vertebrate animals, from fish to mammals, were showing smaller shrunken penises or female genitalia, or both.

2.  This phenomenon was already showing up in human baby boys born to mothers exposed to widespread chemicals during pregnancy. When coupled with universally shrinking sperm counts, it did not bode well for the male sex or for human evolution.

3. These chemicals are endocrine disrupters since they interfere with human hormone secretion. Bluntly put, they are “gender benders”. They include:

• phthalates used in food wrapping, cosmetics and baby powder; 
• flame retardants found in furniture and electrical goods;
• PCBs which although banned are still widespread in the food and environment;

Allegedly, baby boys born to mothers exposed to PCBs grew up wanting to play with dolls and tea sets instead of traditionally male toys.
4.  The issue is of course, highly politicized. The European Union wants to introduce restrictions on pesticides shown to have endocrine-disrupting effects. The United Kingdom is strongly opposed to any restrictions.


2.  Penis Size And The Fag

1.  But how does penis shrinkage affect fags....?

2.  Courtesty of stereotypical gay media, many fags are Size Queens whether they wish to consciously admit it or not. Without phallic worship most gay porn would simply cease to exist.

3. Many an online fag has advertised his endowment or demanded a minimally acceptable length and girth in order to be taken seriously. Notwithstanding that most of the world has gone metric, Gay Inches are the Imperial Units of the Size Queen.

4. If the issue here is the widespread use of industrial and agricultural chemicals that have ended up in the human food chain and the human genetic chain, it’s a fair bet that fags have also been affected.


3.  The Blood of My Children

1.  Two things are worth considering: First that the hormone equation in the mother’s womb affects the hormonal development of the foetal brain. Research indicates that homosexuality is a genetic imprint, not a disease and not an acquisition.

2.  Second, the ingestion and importation of chemicals and pesticides into the bloodstream is apparently triggering behavioural and physical feminization in boys.

Taken together, the consequences are profound:

• Are we as a society being chemically manipulated at genetic levels? 
• Is there a black hand attempt to extract a New Gender without the tedious legal, political and ethical baggage of cloning?  In any event, the technology for human cloning already exists.
• Is the new man Androgenous? 
• Are chemical companies the new Creator Gods who can control population by killing off sperm and then control male behaviour? For what purpose? To turn men into hermaphroditic, sterile, docile drones? 
• Why is the ratio of women to men increasing?

4.  The Age of What....???!!!

1.  Is this the Age of Aquarius that the New Age movement is trumpeting....? Or......the Age of Pussy? Or worse, the Age of Pussy Boys? (We detect a new niche in gay porn specializing in those men born chemically "feminized").

2.  What the hell is going on.....?

Originally published 12 December 2008
Amended and Republished 19 July 2014 | 13 March 2017

Principles of Faggotry 77

When a fag in his mid-50s gets so excited about Pride Week in his city, that it's all he can think about, tweet about, upload about and fight about online, it can only mean 2 things:

1. He's got his drug dealer lined up for the whole week;
2. He's got nothing else in his life to be proud of;

Originally published 31 July 2014
Republished 6 November 2014 | 13 March 2017
 
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Upmarket Sex Robot Brothels

1.  The Newest Threat To The World's Oldest Profession
2.  Think About It
3.  What Could Possibly Go Wrong..?
4.  The Future : Remembered

1.  The Newest Threat To The World's Oldest Profession

1.  Investors and Entrepreneurs in Amsterdam, Bangkok and Las Vegas are rumoured to be gearing up to open upmarket sex robot brothels.  The "models" will be exquisitely beautiful with lifelike, warm skin, a pulse, voice and facial recognition, gestural interfaces and Artificial Intelligence.

2.  There will be perfect sex in every encounter as the "models" will be constantly reprogrammed to serve and improve. They will be built to perfection and offer "emotional connection".


2.   Think About It 

• No Risk Of STDs...Check
• No Need To Negotiate Fees With A Hooker...Check
• Pay As You Go...Check
• Model Will Do Exactly What You Tell Him/Her To Do...Check 
• No Request Too Extreme...Check
• No Need For Safe Words To Stop All Action...Check
• Model Will Be Drug And Alcohol Free...Check
• Model Will Be Programmed To Be Thrilled To See You...Check
• Model Will Be Programmed To Always Orgasm...Check 
• Model Will Be Ready And Willing For Group Sex...Check
• No Obligation To Give Gifts To The Model...Check

3.  What Could Possibly Go Wrong..?

1.  No risk of STDs from the model itself.  So penetration would be condom-free.  But what about STDs from body fluids from a previous user who might have ejaculated or spit, in or on the model..?  What is the guarantee of hygiene?

2.  If, having fucked the model's (artificial) brains out, a customer ended up with an STD, would they sue the brothel AND the previous user who could be traced with DNA tracking..?

3.  How does one reconcile the contradiction between allegedly guilt-free sex with a robot "model" and the massive marketing of an "emotional connection" with that "model"..?


4.  The Future : Remembered

1.  One set of laws for sex robots, one set of laws for human prostitutes.

2.  Customers given the choice of interacting with both simultaneously

3.  Since Artificial Intelligence operates as a feedback loop, expect sex robots to be given Artificial Intelligence Sentient Status which bleed into Human Rights. (Think Lieutenant Data, in Star Trek The Next Generation).

4.  A User Guarantee that a sex robot is deliberately engineered to be incapable of hate or violence.

5.  A re-working of the laws against Pimping.  If a guy is standing on the street corner with 3 gorgeously created sex robots, is he actually pimping..?  The law as it currently stands makes it illegal to live off the earnings of a human prostitute.

6.  Sex robots will be discretely delivered in delivery vans when they make house calls.

7.  Expect a massive outcry and bitter debate on the ethics of manufacturing realistic child sex robots.

8.  Sex Education in schools will be completely revamped.  There will be calls to include actual sexual interaction between the students and the robots as part of an immersive training - similar to pilots flying in simulators.  The family values and religious brigades will go absolutely nuts.

9.  At the same time, The Vatican (assuming there is still a catholic church in 10 years) will already have secretly pre-ordered hundreds of little boy sex robots.  They will be handed out to the bishops and the priests both as a precaution and as a prescription.

10.  Gay Saunas, a dying business model by the way, will have to re-think their survival strategy.  They will morph into a combination of gay sauna and sex robot brothel.  In the past, dragging in porn stars, bodybuilders and singers (Bette Midler, Donna Summer and Barry Manilow were well known gay sauna performers) might have worked.  But not now.  As much as gay porn is at the cutting edge of technology, gay saunas have yet to catch up.

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24 Kaikan, Tokyo, Japan

24 Kaikan
Shinjuku,
2-13-1 Shinjuku Ni-chome
Tokyo
Japan

Tel: 03-3354-2424
Web: http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/english/english

Note:
(1) Open 24 hours
(2) 3 locations in Tokyo: Asakusa, Ueno and Shinjuku

This review is for the Shinjuku location

Submitted by a reader today (side headings and minor editing by FuelMix):

Hey FuelMix

Ok…so I just read you have not had an Asian city sauna reviews in years....That’s sad considering how much info there is to share and learn.....So here’s my contribution. 

1.  Where..?

1.  24 is in the heart of Shinjuku Ni-chome, Tokyo's gay ghetto… 

2.  I'll spare the details about the decline of the area, but needless to say over the past 10 years the encroachment of development and displacement of this area has progressed, but it is still one of the most dense and vibrant gay communities in Asia. 

3.  So, 24 is in a black, 7 story building off the main roads. 

4.  The building is non-descript, other than it stands alone and has no windows and the only moniker of recognition is a small sign saying "24".  


2.  Entering The Building

1.  As you enter the building, you must remove your shoes and put them in a small shoe locker for a small fee.  You then proceed to a vending machine and buy your entrance fare, you present this to the front desk and are given a locker key, towels and a robe, then are allowed in. 

2.  They don’t seem to have a door policy, but I am being told the very drunk or obnoxious are told not to attend. 


3.  The Various Floors, Japanese Attitude, Getting Action, Clientele 

1.   On the first level are the lockers, here you change your clothing and don a comfortable robe. From here, you proceed to the bathing areas a level up. 

2.  The Bathing Areas - The bathing areas are typical Japanese sit down squat and bath, fully lit. Very public. For those who find this a bit too public, just proceed through the door on the opposite side past the hot tubs. 

3.  Here there are banks of private showers in the dimly lit wet play areas, each shower has its own door, and also little holes at waist height into the next shower…good for a look for more… 

4.  Also in this area are two wet saunas with plenty of play and two dry saunas… 

5.  Japanese Attitude - Here is where things can get weird or good or bad or great. 24 has both Japanese and foreigners, but a lot of the Japanese who attend are into Japanese....so maybe you might get shunned by some, but there is also a small group that likes foreigners. 

6.  Don’t be put off by guys walking away from you.  It's gonna happen. But also don’t chase anybody in this group.  They won’t be convinced they suddenly like foreign guys…. 

7.  One you are clean and want to explore, wander up a level… 

8.  Getting Action - Here is where you will find something not in Hong Kong….very large public areas with about 20 bunk beds per room. In these rooms you will find action going on publicly in the bunk beds. You will also see guys sleeping alone, except they are not really sleeping. It seems at 24 you are either hunting or being hunted. 

9.  The sleeping guys are waiting for guys to blow them while they sleep, or more.  If they like you they will let you continue. If they don't, they will politely signal for you to move on.  What's crazy, is there can be big crowd watching or taking part.  It's all in the open.  Don't expect any privacy.  If you find a nice guy, there are no private rooms. You get a bottom or top bunk bed in a dimly lit room and play, but expect guys to watch and generally not touch…  

10.  On the other floors you can rent private rooms.  They are fairly expensive so it's not common. Also, these are more like hotel rooms. 

11.  Clientele - As for the clientele, expect to see it all, but it tends to be Japanese, 30 plus, mainly Japanese for Japanese, but you will see younger guys, blacks, south asians, whites, fat , skinny and more…The place is huge and includes smoking rooms, TV rooms, is centrally located and safe.  I have been twice, it is most busy on Saturday nights, but also has a very strong Sunday afternoon crowd.  

12.  The Reader's Experience - As for my own experiences, I arrived on a Saturday around 8pm, there were probably 50 people there maybe more.  After bathing and wandering around I explored for about and hour and had no action. I went back to the shower areas and soaped myself down, I noticed the person in the next shower area was watching me so I took a look, he was a nice slim Japanese guy, probably around 31, good body, nice ass. We both smiled…he motioned for me to enter his shower so I walked around, we proceeded to kiss and shower and soap each other for about 20 minutes then decided to go upstairs to the bunks.  Once upstairs, we found a nice corner and crawled in where we spent a few hours exploring each others bodies.  At times we had a crowd, at other times we had privacy.  In all, it was fun.  I stayed a few more hours and had a nice blow job in one of the wet saunas from another guy in his early 30’s with a slim body, warm mouth and muscled legs. 

13.  Would The Reader Go Back..?   Would I go back: yes 

14. Would I recommend..??  For some, but not for guys who can’t handle rejection or if you are very out of shape, really fugly or too old.  Just sayin'... 

15.  More on Tokyo:  great food, shopping, culture, but remember Japanese are not gonna throw their legs over their ankles just because you are a foreigner.  In fac,t they may just use those legs to run away. Most of the saunas in Tokyo exclude non-Japanese, so its not for everyone.

Cheers

p.s.  important note: 24 does not supply condoms.  They are not available on premises. Bring your own, also i have found that condoms in Japan can be pretty crappy. You might want to bring some from wherever you are visiting from.

p.s.s.  I would really like to know about Taiwan, could someone please post an accurate report of what the scene is 


FuelMix says:

1.  Thanks for the review. 

2.  Hong Kong saunas tend to hand out Japanese condoms or brands manufactured in Malaysia. Brands like Durex are hugely expensive around here

3.  The blog has a review of Aniki Sauna in Taipei, Taiwan.  You can find it by clicking Gay Sauna TPE

• Readers may submit reviews of gay saunas in any Asian city;
• We reserve the right NOT to publish reviews we deem suspicious, inaccurate or self-serving;
• FuelMix no longer gives personalized sauna advice;

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Principles of Faggotry 76

The term, "chubby chaser" is a misnomer.........fat guys can't run.

Originally published 31 July 2014
Republished 5 November 2014 | 12 March 2017

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Principles of Faggotry 75

A fag has no clue what's going on in his life, but always has the definitive answers for what's going on in another fag's life.

Originally published 1 February 2014
Republished 5 November 2014 | 12 March 2017

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Why Porn Has Gotten So Rough

Underlining and bold print by FuelMix:

It’s become more rough. It’s become generally more… humiliating,” offers Julianna, a top porn agent. “Anyone can open the internet and find anything they want, and when you watch this, you go, ok, what’s the next step? You’re always curious about going deeper and deeper and deeper".

Julianna is the co-founder of Julmodels, an agency for porn performers based in Hungary. She is also one of the subjects of Pornocracy, an eye-opening documentary about the state of porn playing at SXSW. The crux of the film, directed by the French porn veteran turned director Ovidie, is that free XXX tube sites have not only left the adult industry in tatters, but are a pox on society: a danger to sex workers, forcing them into extreme acts of degradation due to dwindling demand, and to our youth, allowing them unfettered access to hardcore pornography. 

The latter issue looms large in Ovidie’s harrowing film, a stygian exploration into porn’s white collar underbelly that likens its hoodied, pierced creator to a Lisbeth Salander-esque hacktivist truth-bombing the system. In one particularly cringe-inducing scene, Pierre Woodman, a renowned DIY porn filmmaker, captures the corrupting influence of tube sites. 

“The root of it all is that internet piracy is killing adult movies, streaming content that should only be for adults but that is now unfortunately available to young people as well,” he says. “And I’m fed up with hearing every day during casting sessions a girl who says, ‘Oh I’ve known you since I was eight years old.’ That’s just too much.” 

After navigating her way past performers, handlers, and producers, Ovidie’s quest leads her to the kingpin: MindGeek, a multinational corporation with a near-monopoly on free streaming porn. The conglomerate owns all the sites in the Pornhub network, including YouPorn, RedTube, GayTube, Tube8, and Pornhub; as well as the porno studios Brazzers, Digital Playground, Reality Kings, Twistys, and the bulk of Playboy’s digital and TV operations. But the sprawling company, which previously operated under the names Mansef and Manwin, has run afoul of the law on numerous occasions. In 2009, the Secret Service seized $6.4 million in funds from two fidelity bank accounts controlled by Mansef, with Feds accusing the syndicate of money laundering; and in 2012, its then-owner Fabian Thylmann, a young German programmer once hailed as the Mark Zuckerberg of porn, was arrested on charges of tax evasion.

What Pornocracy does is raises plenty of questions concerning MindGeek’s operations. Why is it headquartered in Luxembourg, a notorious tax haven, when most of its operations appear to be run out of Canada? Do Wall Street hedge funds have a controlling interest in the company? Who is actually pulling the strings? How are these sites not violating copyright laws? And why is the money allegedly being routed through various countries to performers?

“They’re a fishy, weird company,” says Stoya, a Digital Playground contract girl from 2007-2013, in the film. “My Fleshlight royalties, when the wire transfers come in, go through banks in places like South Africa. They have offices in Ireland. It’s a bunch of men with Greek last names and thick Greek accents claiming to be Quebecois.

It all began with the “great crash of 2006.” That year, adult DVD sales experienced a sharp decline. The cratering coincided with the arrival of YouPorn, porn’s version of YouTube featuring millions of pirated XXX videos that are free to stream. In 2011, YouPorn was purchased by Manwin, which proceeded to gobble up most of the other tube sites—before acquiring the adult industry’s leading production studios as well. Female performer’s wages dropped from around $3,000 to $600 a shoot, and even the biggest and brightest porn stars now flock to “extreme” sites like Kink for work. Today, many of the premier porn studios are struggling; pirated videos, on the other hand, make up approximately 95 percent of the porn consumed across the globe.

 “Up until 10 years ago, the industry consisted of a constellation of smaller producers who produced and sold their own content directly on DVD or via VOD,” Ovidie tells me. “Within the past 10 years, the entire industry has been taken over by big tech companies, multinationals managed by businessmen based in tax havens who don’t have any real connection to the porn industry. These people are not there on-set during shooting; they have no contact with the workers or the actual production process. What is happening in porn is exactly what’s happening in many other sectors: an ‘Uberisation’ of the workforce, with huge platforms who have no consideration for performers.”

The answer, Ovidie says, is for various governments to begin regulating these tube sites in order to protect minors from accessing them, which will in turn grant the adult industry a degree of latitude.

“In France, my film and the issues it tackles was taken very seriously on a national level, and politically by the Ministry of Women’s Affairs. They are considering putting in place legal protections for minors. This is the most urgent thing that can be done,” she says. “The Tube sites have no system to protect minors from watching, as opposed to paid porn sites where you generally at least need a credit card to watch. On the Tubes, the access is immediate, and they don’t verify age. They are free, easy, and accessible via a phone. The age of porn site consumers has gone down dramatically, and the effects of this are catastrophic. If free access to porn is limited, then producers can get their funding back, start working legally again, and pay their talent fairly.” 

-----Why Porn Has Gotten So Rough, Daily Beast, 11 March 2017

FuelMix says:

1.  So fag, when someone says, "OMG, you have a really hot body..!!  Are you a Personal Trainer..?? You should be like...a model...or a porn star...!!" think long and think hard.

2.  We once got into a conversation in which we all agreed that the legal age of sexual consent was a complete myth and had been eroded by the Web since so many free and pirated porn sites allowed anybody, regardless of age to view everything without restriction.  The above article confirms that.

3.  We also predicted that the age of confirmed porn addicts would drop dramatically.  The article seems to imply that as well.